men nowadays are more attracted to either women within their age or even older compare to baby boomers and the generations that came before them. the word pedophile gets thrown around a lot more than ever, therefore I dont you can't blame us
roughly because more of us are educated on the biology of women's fertility and it's very limited window. that 25 mark is so that a relationship can be built before her 30s and better insuring healthy offspring. couple that with the fact of younger implies her having less emotional baggage and (used to) imply lower sexual milage on her sexual parts whoch lends towards payernity assurance.
I can admit I’m too old and ugly for men because I’m 30 now. As a matter of fact, they always saw me as ugly. Even before I hit 30. I’m going to die alone and that’s ok. The dating world is really cruel and I don’t have to go through that mess. It’s really stressful where it mentally drains you because of all the hoops you have to jump through just to get someone to like you. And who wants to do that? Not me 🤷♀️
It’s nothing new. This was typical in the 1960s too. It was also typical in the 90s. We’re just on the 30-year cycle again. For what it’s worth, you don’t win if you’re the age that men who are much older than you desire because they will either use you and move on or just die suddenly.
Because such things like the uprising of baldness and hairless is an epidemic. So is tired saggy skin and feet burnouts.
Since things are opened to men. They're taking advantage to manifest those issues. Many men who are getting into the youthful look are going very straight forward with the culture. Being hassled due of prejudicism and sex discrimination is bring them to be fearless and ignited.
It's not creepy, it's natural for men to get attracted to younger women for breeding. Younger girls have more energy to raise kids.
A farmer needs a fertile land to sow the seeds to grow crops or plants with good qualities. Sowing seeds in unfertile land is a waste of time and money.
If men are so concerned with having kids with a younger women then they themselves should also be having kids young so that they have the energy for them
@Apple1996 Men were put in the would have category. Men would have had kids when younger except that feminism screwed up a entire nation that made it impossible for them to have children when they were younger.
@SpokenTruth don't think it's impossible at all. I started having kids with my husband when he was 17. Obviously that's kind of young but i know many other men that became fathers in their 20s. The men that say they are waiting till 30s to have kids yet still want a younger woman to have kids with are just outing themselves as irresponsible/took too long to get their lives together
@Apple1996 Yes you had children with your husband not the rest of the men you are referring to. Back in my own would have been a dad days girls were going for college guys football players and guys with jacked up trucks guys from the uppity side of the tracks what girls saw as the better off rich guys. Those girls wouldn't look my way once much less twice and in fact they saw guys like myself as a nuisance to them. I recall one night I got a opportunity to ride around with a couple of other more popular guys with a girl I I had my eye on I was excited to go on a ride with her in the car The minute she got in the car with us until the end of the ride all that came out of her mouth was this guy's name how he was about to graduate and go to law school how he was rich had a new sports car on and on. And that's the exact reason I not only gave up on dating and relationships way back them because both of my ex girlfriends practically had the same mind one stated how I was her temporary until something better came alone constantly talking about cheating and the other one she was caught cheating trying to find a rich guy. But those things were somehow my fault? Those are the things we face as guys all of our lives.
@SpokenTruth I'm referring to all men like if y'all want kids then have them young. And yeah probably was that way cuz you were going after the wrong type of girls. Some people are just bad at picking people that don't match what they really need in life. Men especially get blinded by looks and go after the bad types of women
@Apple1996 Going after the wrong girls? That was every girl I ever ran into including the girls from my side of the tracks every single one of them were that way. The two girls I dated one was seriously over weight and the other one was no super model by a long shot and yet both were nearly identical when it came to materialism and wanting to cheat both were from my side of the tracks. Materialism were their middle names.
@Apple1996 It was the next town over and the next town over everywhere we went and it remained that way until this very day. That's why I stopped looking many years ago.
I don’t give a shit what men are obsessed with If you get the men you want or truly like why do you worry what’s going on in the matrix.. people are different some women and men do like younger ones..
I think that porn has a lot to do with that but there is another issue. The male caveman brain is always evaluation every women for breeding potential. Most guys are not aware that they do it. And we now have a youth oriented society that does not value wisdom, just possessions.
Most men typically like younger adult women because their physical beauty lasts longer at 21 than a woman who is already approaching 30's or 40's; nevertheless it doesn't mean young women will go for a much older guy neither unless the guy has a lot of money most of the time.
I mean if you look around in real life at a park or store any public facilities you won’t see people with huge age gaps like the girl being 18 with a 30 or 40 year old man… age gaps are still a thing but not as super super common. Most people prefer someone close in age, I personally go my age or older but I’ve never liked guys who were grandpa age so it’s usually only 10-12 years older than me not 20 or 30 years older lol.
Men are programmed to be biologically attracted to the most fertile women and the most fertile women tend to be younger. It's not because they are young. Realistically, would a man choose an obese or unhealthy 18 year old who don't look that fertile over a fit and fertile 25 year old? I don't think so unless there's something wrong with them. If you're basing it on your experience then that's just an anecdote.
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Sign of the times. Men want women and women want to look youthful. Women go to great lengths to look youthful. You tell us in your every narcissistic action that the younger a woman is the more valuable she is. And in this world where a PERSON is reduced to thier dating bio, thier Facebook page, thier Twitter handle, blah blah blah. It's not what you are that counts. It's what you can convince others to believe you are.
The guys I asked about this are disgusted with women who don't try to stay in shape. I keep telling them that the food in the US is the worst in the world and it's difficult to avoid gaining weight.
The other reason is immaturity. Guys are lazy and don't like to deal with women who see through their bs. Younger women don't often have enough experience to know these guys are complete loser liars.
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Men have always preferred younger women… since the dawn of time. Old women who started to get power in society have made it shameful.
Back in the days of castles up until recently, men in their 30-50 would court women 14-18 and it was considered normal. Women love men for power, money, status, etc. Men love women for their youthful body. It’s all you actually have that we can’t get elsewhere. 99% of men are ehebophiles.
Maybe you should ask the women that question. Guys seek younger women because they can, and women like it when an older, experienced (usually well-off financially) guy shows an interest in them.
Men aren't interested in older women who have been ran through, eggs drying up, tits sagging when there are younger, fertile women. Kind of like those 20 something women who show no interest in 90 percent of men until reality hits.
That's nothing new. To men, a woman's main value is her youth, beauty, fertility, and low body count. Kick and scream all you want but you can't argue people into different preferences.
They don’t have to be that young I don’t know why you said 19 but anyway, it’s always been that way. Older guys date younger women, and women seem to like gray guys they say they look good more extinguished and men say I age like a fine wine
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I say this is complete horseshit.
men nowadays are more attracted to either women within their age or even older compare to baby boomers and the generations that came before them. the word pedophile gets thrown around a lot more than ever, therefore I dont you can't blame us
roughly because more of us are educated on the biology of women's fertility and it's very limited window. that 25 mark is so that a relationship can be built before her 30s and better insuring healthy offspring. couple that with the fact of younger implies her having less emotional baggage and (used to) imply lower sexual milage on her sexual parts whoch lends towards payernity assurance.
I can admit I’m too old and ugly for men because I’m 30 now. As a matter of fact, they always saw me as ugly. Even before I hit 30. I’m going to die alone and that’s ok. The dating world is really cruel and I don’t have to go through that mess. It’s really stressful where it mentally drains you because of all the hoops you have to jump through just to get someone to like you. And who wants to do that? Not me 🤷♀️
Sasha, you are not old. I am sorry but as part of gag community I really think you are beautiful just too hard on yourself
It’s nothing new. This was typical in the 1960s too. It was also typical in the 90s. We’re just on the 30-year cycle again. For what it’s worth, you don’t win if you’re the age that men who are much older than you desire because they will either use you and move on or just die suddenly.
Because such things like the uprising of baldness and hairless is an epidemic. So is tired saggy skin and feet burnouts.
Since things are opened to men. They're taking advantage to manifest those issues. Many men who are getting into the youthful look are going very straight forward with the culture. Being hassled due of prejudicism and sex discrimination is bring them to be fearless and ignited.
Sorry. I thought you meant why are men so obsessed in taking care of themselves.
It's not creepy, it's natural for men to get attracted to younger women for breeding. Younger girls have more energy to raise kids.
A farmer needs a fertile land to sow the seeds to grow crops or plants with good qualities. Sowing seeds in unfertile land is a waste of time and money.
What a disgusting metaphor
I puked 🤢
@MidnightOwl57 It's a fact.
If men are so concerned with having kids with a younger women then they themselves should also be having kids young so that they have the energy for them
@MidnightOwl57 yess I agree it's gross when men say this shit
@Apple1996 😂🤣😅
@Apple1996 Men were put in the would have category. Men would have had kids when younger except that feminism screwed up a entire nation that made it impossible for them to have children when they were younger.
@SpokenTruth don't think it's impossible at all. I started having kids with my husband when he was 17. Obviously that's kind of young but i know many other men that became fathers in their 20s.
The men that say they are waiting till 30s to have kids yet still want a younger woman to have kids with are just outing themselves as irresponsible/took too long to get their lives together
@Apple1996 Yes you had children with your husband not the rest of the men you are referring to. Back in my own would have been a dad days girls were going for college guys football players and guys with jacked up trucks guys from the uppity side of the tracks what girls saw as the better off rich guys. Those girls wouldn't look my way once much less twice and in fact they saw guys like myself as a nuisance to them. I recall one night I got a opportunity to ride around with a couple of other more popular guys with a girl I I had my eye on I was excited to go on a ride with her in the car The minute she got in the car with us until the end of the ride all that came out of her mouth was this guy's name how he was about to graduate and go to law school how he was rich had a new sports car on and on. And that's the exact reason I not only gave up on dating and relationships way back them because both of my ex girlfriends practically had the same mind one stated how I was her temporary until something better came alone constantly talking about cheating and the other one she was caught cheating trying to find a rich guy. But those things were somehow my fault? Those are the things we face as guys all of our lives.
@SpokenTruth I'm referring to all men like if y'all want kids then have them young. And yeah probably was that way cuz you were going after the wrong type of girls. Some people are just bad at picking people that don't match what they really need in life. Men especially get blinded by looks and go after the bad types of women
@Apple1996 Going after the wrong girls? That was every girl I ever ran into including the girls from my side of the tracks every single one of them were that way. The two girls I dated one was seriously over weight and the other one was no super model by a long shot and yet both were nearly identical when it came to materialism and wanting to cheat both were from my side of the tracks. Materialism were their middle names.
@SpokenTruth could be where you lived but doubt every girl was that way
@Apple1996 It was the next town over and the next town over everywhere we went and it remained that way until this very day. That's why I stopped looking many years ago.
@SpokenTruth don't think it's that way anymore for my generation. Most people I went to high-school with got married and started having kids young
I don’t give a shit what men are obsessed with
If you get the men you want or truly like why do you worry what’s going on in the matrix.. people are different some women and men do like younger ones..
First of all these articles are bullshit they mainstream controlled.
I never heared from my friends that they want someone younger. They actually want a real grown up women and very one defines a real Women different.
I think that porn has a lot to do with that but there is another issue. The male caveman brain is always evaluation every women for breeding potential. Most guys are not aware that they do it. And we now have a youth oriented society that does not value wisdom, just possessions.
Most men typically like younger adult women because their physical beauty lasts longer at 21 than a woman who is already approaching 30's or 40's; nevertheless it doesn't mean young women will go for a much older guy neither unless the guy has a lot of money most of the time.
Because they’re disgusting and can’t handle a grown woman. Me about to turn 25 this year still looking like 20 I’m not worried about it lol.
I mean if you look around in real life at a park or store any public facilities you won’t see people with huge age gaps like the girl being 18 with a 30 or 40 year old man… age gaps are still a thing but not as super super common. Most people prefer someone close in age, I personally go my age or older but I’ve never liked guys who were grandpa age so it’s usually only 10-12 years older than me not 20 or 30 years older lol.
Men are programmed to be biologically attracted to the most fertile women and the most fertile women tend to be younger. It's not because they are young. Realistically, would a man choose an obese or unhealthy 18 year old who don't look that fertile over a fit and fertile 25 year old? I don't think so unless there's something wrong with them. If you're basing it on your experience then that's just an anecdote.
Sign of the times. Men want women and women want to look youthful. Women go to great lengths to look youthful. You tell us in your every narcissistic action that the younger a woman is the more valuable she is. And in this world where a PERSON is reduced to thier dating bio, thier Facebook page, thier Twitter handle, blah blah blah. It's not what you are that counts. It's what you can convince others to believe you are.
The guys I asked about this are disgusted with women who don't try to stay in shape. I keep telling them that the food in the US is the worst in the world and it's difficult to avoid gaining weight.
The other reason is immaturity. Guys are lazy and don't like to deal with women who see through their bs. Younger women don't often have enough experience to know these guys are complete loser liars.
Men have always preferred younger women… since the dawn of time. Old women who started to get power in society have made it shameful.
Back in the days of castles up until recently, men in their 30-50 would court women 14-18 and it was considered normal. Women love men for power, money, status, etc. Men love women for their youthful body. It’s all you actually have that we can’t get elsewhere.
99% of men are ehebophiles.
Maybe you should ask the women that question. Guys seek younger women because they can, and women like it when an older, experienced (usually well-off financially) guy shows an interest in them.
Men aren't interested in older women who have been ran through, eggs drying up, tits sagging when there are younger, fertile women. Kind of like those 20 something women who show no interest in 90 percent of men until reality hits.
That's nothing new. To men, a woman's main value is her youth, beauty, fertility, and low body count. Kick and scream all you want but you can't argue people into different preferences.
We are not. You’re too young. We look better old but we like them on the young side at least 8 years younger.
They don’t have to be that young I don’t know why you said 19 but anyway, it’s always been that way. Older guys date younger women, and women seem to like gray guys they say they look good more extinguished and men say I age like a fine wine
Like my friend, he never traveled his whole life now he’s doing a lot of traveling him and his wife both work
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