Why are most men obsessed with prime ages?

Question

Like I'm 26 I still look curvy and young. This is gross behavior I dont understand... we're not breeding live stock...

VanillaSalt · Accepted Answer

Lmao all the women justifiably pissed about this assholes opinion. But he’s not wrong. The younger the woman the better and I can give reasons…

Younger women have fewer partners. This matter because “some” me included believe fewer partners means a woman will value the partners she has more. It means fewer comparisons. It means lower standards to meet. It means less douche bags gave her a bad taste making her less a bitch. Women tend to want taller, stronger, better partners then them. So duh age will be higher overall. Also younger women can give birth safer and with fewer complications and chances of problems for the kids… besides this unpopular as it is to hear… your a fucking 35 yr old hag. You ARE NOT as hot as a 18 yr old. You ARE NOT as tight as an 18 yr old.

Older women come with perks for sure… but your values in marriage as you get older ONLY cause your more mature. But it means we missed all the explosive youth years. Men don’t care about your money or status. Not good once’s anyway they got their own lives. They don’t want you for your Whitt personality or support because they got friends and family… they want you for children and sex. Take away them 2 things and there’s no point to find a partner. It’s cruel it sucks but life balances out. Men are useless the first 20-30 years until they establish themselves then they overtake women. Women are beautiful and have unequaled value early on but as you age that value disappears and if you don’t have someone that values you already that means you gotta work as hard as the guys now to find a quality partner.

NamerOfStars · Accepted Answer

First thing's first: one dolt on the internet is not "most men". Keep a sense of perspective here.

Now then- humans are animals. For all the distaste we have for that statement's implications, it's still true. So far as natural selection is concerned, we are all absolutely breeding stock. And livestock, too. As mammals, we build societies so complex and enormous that there's an evolutionary advantage in deviating from the "make babies and get outta Dodge" approach that most life forms get, but the more basic instinctive programming still serves its purpose. Tell me, would you react so harshly to the attractiveness criticisms women make of short men? Perhaps so. But it's rooted from the same place: millions of years of instincts don't disappear just because they're no longer politically correct.

That said, there's a helluva lot more to a happy and successful relationship than mere attractiveness, and far more to a human's worth than ANYTHING having to do with sex; clearly, these are the words of some dolt, as I mentioned. But dismissing them as incomprehensible stupidity without analyzing where the ideas come from is setting yourself up to do the same thing.

dustybiker · Accepted Answer

You’re looking at this backwards.

Men that think this way and behave this way is a positive. Think of it as them lighting themselves up with a big blinking red light.

It highlights all the great men out there, makes them much easier to find.

doopayo · Accepted Answer

They’re old and sad with the fact they themselves are aging and can’t pull a woman their age because they’re not going to put up with their bs so they prey on young women who don’t know any better

Anonymous · Answer

There must have been a chart giving the age hierarchy of man's relevance too.

Clearly this chart is written only with reproduction, or in broader sense, keeping the continuation of species in mind.

The words are really harsh, not recommended to be used anywhere, but the numbers are not that much wrong, to be honest. The same information could be said with more delicacy.

Same is the case for males too, only the limit is a bit higher, and the conditions are different.

Speaking in terms of nature, it does not give a damn what we achieve in our life, but we are, somewhere an essential part of the ecosystem, and hence it is by nature that we are here to just continue our species.

@PrettyPriya here works in medical. Surely she will be able to tell that the information, on a general scale is fairly true. If you want a healthy baby, that is. A baby with congenital anomalies and miscarriages and the mental strain that women get out of it, by nature or even by society is astronomical.

And please, don't get men as in general here. The limits are not set by the society, or men, but are found by science, and by extension, are set by the nature itself.

Lliam · Answer

Since I was never interested in breeding, those cliches about age were irrelevant to me. Every one of my girlfriends from age 16 on were on the pill.

I didn't want kids but always loved sex. I've read that women's sex drive tends to be at its peak between ages 27 and 45.

By their mid-20s women also have more life experience and are more mentally mature, so they are a lot more enjoyable to be with than high school and college girls.

And considering that fact that women these day often look amazing well into their 30s or even later, I think women who are beyond their "prime" years for childbearing can be wonderful.

The best girlfriend I ever had was 31. She was an extraordinary, wonderful person but also looked amazing and was hypersexual, orgasmic, experienced and uninhibited.

I married my wife when she was 40. We've been happily married now for 25 years.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

There's a bunch of psychological stuff that goes with these rule of thumb theories. Life choices and such for instance... like let's shoot stright to the 35+ group... why, most likely, is she single still? Is there a chance she's a '4' but she only gives 9's and 10's a go in the bed, bath, and beyond and then wonders why they just leave her? Maybe she's crazy and basically chases off any normal human being from wanting to be around them? If she's been riding the CC for too long her ability to pair bond is probably broken. Then there's all those chicks that achieve everything they wanted from a man and then wonder why a man don't want what she wanted in a person and has become. The list could go on and on. I didn't even get to stuff like drug/alcohol use or junk food addictions. ... it's a case by case sort of thing, but these rule of thumb reasonings exist for reasons.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

1. I don't want kids, also wtf are lemon panties and who certifies them? lol.

2. No clue what "long in the tooth" means.

3. I'd date and marry a 35 year old, or a 25 year old, so long as she likes the same stuff as me, is cute, and is kind hearted, and can draw, and is good at gaming.

I honestly don't see the difference between those 2 ages, and to say they are "throwaways", or that they have high body counts just because of their age, is just retarded.

I'm 35 and my body count is either 1 or 0 depending on what counts as sex.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

The last girl I ever fucked was 34 and she was pretty damn good and I'd still be fucking her to this day, 26 years later, had the mini-bitch not turned gold digger and started cheating on me!!
But, a lot of this stuff on the chart is also how women see themselves. I've heard from a number of girls in their early 20's just this past month that think they're over the hill and most guys wouldn't want them anymore!! If that were the case, that leaves us adult guys a very tiny window of about 5 years to get together with one of you for marriage and babies! We CAN''T fuck anyone under 18 and you tend to think there's no point in trying anymore by the time you're 23!!

God_of_Thunder · Answer

The whole concept is ridiculous, and disgusting. The men who truly believe that nonsense deserve to be single forever.

Women of any age can make wonderful, loving partners, and there's no such thing as being "used up" or whatever other BS terms these guys arbitrarily apply to them.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

That's how some Men see things but I have seen some beautiful in all ages
this one girl I knew from school looked way different from school and she is age
53 looks like a knockout and no shit.. I'm older age 53, birthdate 2/9/68 but
I like women who can still get prego cause I love to have at least one child
and be a dad hey there are Men in their 60's just becoming dads.

Anonymous · Answer

"we're not breeding live stock... "

Ah, but you kind of are. In a purely evolutionary and historical sense, that is what caused this and drives this. You wouldn't ask why parents would sacrifice themselves for their children, but it's got the same root reasons. It's a species survival mechanism, that evolved when a species had limited offspring. When a species has tons of offspring, the parents often don't give a shit about their spawn.

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

That is just sick, whoever wrote that is disgusting.  I have no clue why anyone would think we are like that, women can have children into the 40's.

Staximus · Answer

This mattered a couple hundred years ago when most people didn't make it past 50 or 60. The prime goal of most families was to have a bunch of kids for free labor on the farm. If your primary concern was to produce viable offspring, it's a valid standpoint. In modern times, people don't care so much about having healthy kids.

PrettyPriya · Answer

I haven't a damn clue either. Who exactly is the "expert" that determines what ages women are prime anyhow?

Anonymous · Answer

1. Old women are uglier
2. Theyre tired and bored, so they settle for you, fhe beta good guy (big turn off)
3. Theyre way less interesting and innocent and naive. Even from a psychological perspective they're uglier than young women
4. Theyre more likely to own a home, car, etc so theyll look down on you if you lack those things
5. Theyre more likely to have kids, ex alpha boyfriends they won't ever forget, etc

SnakeBoop · Answer

*only incels are bothered by ages in this regard. so they're all men to avoid anyway!

Sarahr123 · Answer

Not every girl is a whore and has acquired too many bodies by the late twenties. All the girls I know who married at 28/29 were virgins or only had one or two very seirous boyfriend before they married. Don’t assume the whole world is like you.

HighValue · Answer

I'd go with 18 to 30 for an exclusive LTR intending to live together and create/raise a family. I'd prefer between 22 to 27 the most.
Past 30 is too much since I want 3 kids and realistically that would take 7 years after first meeting.

Curiousgirl2414 · Answer

I would assume this post was just satire, but ultimately, the fact that they used the age range 16-21 instead of 18-21 tells you all you really need to know.

RichSD · Answer

A large reason most people get married is to start a family. You don't have to like it, but that's the reason. Most of us want to have little versions of ourselves to raise and love and have some legacy after we're gone.

Dinklex3 · Answer

Don't believe random posts on the internet.  I've never met a man in the real world who thought like this. Men my age and younger don't really care as long as you're attractive.

Anonymous · Answer

We do it to ourselves too. Apparently sometime in our 30s is when men will become the most attractive to women because they will likely have their lives together and are the most confident as we ever were. This is supposedly why women like older men.

Also I have never seen someone write the women's version like that, this is obviously written by someone who wanted to strawman the people who do believe that.

Shark_61695 · Answer

I thought this would be about 23, 29, 31, 37, etc. year olds... Gotta love a woman with a prime age :)

boggboss · Answer

They are not lol by raw fact they are not that there are women in all age groups in relationships proves this wrong

notwoke · Answer

I think the table is pretty spot on. As soon as I hear curvy, I run the other way cuz that means fat. Sex is the only thing we want from you. Everything else is a ruse to get into your 3 holes

spartan55 · Answer

You say it's gross, but clearly you buy it. You shouldn't.

Aurora1010 · Answer

Whoever made that post is a douchebag that isn't even husband material himself.

Djaay · Answer

Your acclamations of age clarifications are bullshit and not true. Good thing you don't read the Bible ! You'll be up to some serious truth if you did.

jasco · Answer

Well the reason why is because its due to the older you get the harder it is for you to have kids. So most men want someone younger. At least thats what I heard

jshm2 · Answer

We aren't? That post is just incel negging. You should laugh at it, then ignore it.

Subarugirl · Answer

The men who do think this way barely see women as human, just objects for their pleasure.

pink_and_inlove · Answer

I do find that very weird wtf. Like if a woman takes care of herself she’ll be beautiful until dhe is 50-60

boobliker · Answer

I'm 66years and I still look at the curvys and young girls but it passed me now just hope.

jahaims · Answer

Never met a man obsessed with prime ages. Definitely not most.

Anonymous · Answer

Probably the same reason chicks are obsessed with tall guys, or high status guys. It's just a widely held preference.

Anonymous · Answer

Most men aren't, I personally would set my base age at 25 and work up towards 35 even 40/45 occasionally higher still (Liz Hurley, right)

Darksign · Answer

Biology and because younger women are more fertile?

ForestPark · Answer

It's called trolling. Those guys don't believe that nonsense generally speaking.

TsAubreyKate · Answer

Men should never have to settle why eat scraps and leftovers when you can have a fresh hot meal

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Prime ages are 19, 23, 29, 31, and 37.

TallAnon · Answer

Pretty sure that post was satire, or I hope it is.

ewok737 · Answer

Who the hell makes this shit up?

cloud9vortex1234 · Answer

They don't want Birth Defects for their offspring.

TaleTeller · Answer

Where the hell did you get this rubbish from?

Anonymous · Answer

Some of it is true, do women want guys over 30?

bean2k21 · Answer

Why are women?

EaterPeter · Answer

Nice question

Anonymous · Answer

made me chuckle lol

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