What did I do wrong?

[Anonymous]

So a couple of days ago I added my crush on on Snapchat and the first two days that we were friends everything was fine but then yesterday he told me at four pm he was going to bed and then I was watching his snap score and it was almost as high as mine and he has had Snapchat for like four days and had mine sense like 2019 so not only did he lie to me but he also posted on his story and un added me did I do something wrong was I to clingy is there a way I can fix this any advice is greatly appreciated thanks

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to say exactly what went wrong in this situation, as there could be many factors at play. It's possible that your crush simply wasn't interested in pursuing a relationship with you, or that he was not ready for a commitment.

However, it's important to remember that you are not necessarily at fault for what happened. It's okay to express your interest in someone and to put yourself out there, and it's not your responsibility to try to fix or change someone else's behavior.

If you feel comfortable doing so, you could try reaching out to your crush and asking for an explanation for why he unadded you. However, it's important to be prepared for the possibility that he may not respond or may not be interested in pursuing a relationship with you.

Ultimately, it's important to focus on your own well-being and to prioritize your own needs and desires. Remember that you deserve to be with someone who respects and values you, and who is willing to put in the effort to build a healthy and fulfilling relationship.

[Asker]

Thank you

[Opinion Owner]

You’re welcome

[SteveSmith1985]

Well... no. I don't see how you could have done anything wrong here. You weren't clingy. You were chatting like normal.

I cannot account for why he would lie to you about this. I especially can't account for why he would un-add you.

That makes no sense. At least not based on any information available to you.

Whatever his reasons, they are known to him alone.

But really, there's no good reason for him to have treated you this way. Because... you really didn't do anything wrong!

[Asker]

Ok thanks you

[SteveSmith1985]

You're welcome. I hope you turn your affections towards a guy who's not a jerk. Sorry.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

He's just not that into you. It's ok, he's not that into me either

[In_Trance]

You didn't do anything wrong; it's just not a good match

[AnonGuy9000]

We'd need more context to answer this.