What did I do wrong?

[Anonymous]

Today my girlfriend and I had the day off. I figured we can spend the day cuddling and watching TV. she's wanting to go out for breakfast then to the mall. I told her I just wanted to spend time alone today and watch TV with her. needless to I ended up going out for breakfast then out to the mall for another two hours. she can tell I wasn't having a good time out.. Now she's mad at me because I had an attitude about going out. once we got back to the house she is
not taking a nap. while I'm awake. she doesn't want me touching her because she's mad at me. What did I do wrong. I wanted to spend the day with her just not outside. but I gave in and gave her what she wanted. and she's still mad..

[Pink2000]

My ex was the exact same way as you. Whenever he had a day off he would want to spend it inside. I’m the type of person that likes to go out to eat , to the mall, movies, etc. He’d agree to go out with me and end up having an attitude cause he didn’t wanna be there just like you. She’s mad because you didn’t enjoy it… eventhough you didn’t want to I think it’s important to explain to her why. For example, “babe I’ve been working and I finally have a day off. I’d rather stay in and rest with you.”

[itsalyssaagain]

If you have into what she wanted you could’ve at least put a smile on your face and made the day memorable lol.

[asphaltrhymes]

Hmm reminds me of that thing I saw once, a show, but it's like, if I do what they want now, maybe they'll, just maybe, they'll do what I want later, like a reward without expecting a reward. Even if there is no reward later. Or maybe a surprise reward, lol, later. Ah well 😃❤️‍🩹 and hence, I'm single 😜🤣

[LiamJHayden]

It is common. From the gallery it looks like neither of you effectively communicated what you wanted to do beforehand, with each expecting the other to agree. You gave in, but were unhappy about it and she perceived your resentment, however slight it might have been. She is now upset that, in her eyes, you did not want to go with her.

Solution: Make a plan in advance and take turns.

[Blueeyes81]

In my eyes nothing. However she wants you to do things she likes and to be happy about like she probably does with you.