If he ignores me why is he possessive?

[happyfoetus]

He used to love me nd I never returned his feelings. And we never talked for 4 years as I didn’t want to stay connected to him. When I broke up with my boyfriend, my ego walls fell and I realised my mistake and rudeness. So I decided to correct it by talking to him, ask his pardon and explain my situation and immaturity then. But he blatantly ignored me. Yet he stayed connected as well. As he was giving me mixed signals, I decided to let go. That’s when I realised he is upset and annoyed at me for my new dates and hookups. He is super pissed and annoyed and the worst part is, he makes it obvious. And even though we don’t talk, he always wanted to connect with me on at least one app.

[spartan55]

How do you know he is annoyed if you don't talk?

[happyfoetus]

Yes. He expresses it very obvious manner.

[spartan55]

What does that mean? You aren't talking to him, so I that doesn't make any sense.

[happyfoetus]

We do talk. but not often. He always wants to connect with me in one or the other form. Although we don't engage in active conversations, he constantly checks up on me through his trusted friends. Also whenever we have an active conversation, he expresses his annoyance on my new flings and cut short the conversation. He has on several occasion expressed me as only his' and that me finding a new hookup was devastating for him. It was expressed by him in clear terms.

[spartan55]

He sounds like a fucking baby, do you really need to hat bullshit in your life?