I officially met on the first week of December 2022 and hit it off, from the beginning, in terms of conversation flow and being able to relate to each other as the youngest individuals in the office.
I always kept a friendly demeanour with him, but hence we are on opposite sides of the office, and he always walks over to my end to speak with me and check in; further, he chats with me from morning to afternoon via our work messenger, and we also did exchange number in case we had to discuss work absences and so forth.
Furthermore, I do not drive to work; we made a deal that I would give him weekly gas money for dropping me home after work, so that has worked out for us. He compliments my clothes and recently told me he would miss me when I left early for the dentist, compliments my new hairdo and nails when he notices.
I did help him create a hinge account two months ago, but he told me he hates online dating.
We have a pretty friendly banter, and my manager has even pointed out that we have a good working relationship, but it has crossed my mind if he has a slight crush on me.
Overall it's been fun working with him as we do lots of teamwork. Still, it has crossed my mind that he might have a slight crush, as he also shares lots of personal things with me in terms of struggles etc... He had even called me when I was off from work to check in, and overall checks in on me and follows up with what I tell him.
He is an amiable guy who can start a conversation with anyone, so I'm assuming he is being friendly. Still, I would appreciate some insight, as this evening he sent me a text message out random after work asking me if I like him more than friends. I did not answer the question but asked if he wanted me. And he also never answered; he said he was curious as my song choice on our way home today had him thinking about it.
Anyways his last day at work is next week.
Thank you !!
He is 27. I'm 26.
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Yes. I believe there are only two reasons he would ask that question.
Reason 1: He wants to know where you stand because he likes you as more than friends, and he wants to be sure that you reciprocate those feelings before revealing them.
Reason 2: He wants to know where you stand because he wants to make sure he doesn't encourage you in the "more than friends" direction (RARE).
You have tons and tons of evidence that it's Reason 1 in your case. He wants you to tell him how you regard him because he's bursting to move out of the friend zone and get together with you.
You better act fast because right now he is regretting asking you that.
How is it possible for people to be this clueless?
It's mind boggling isn't it?