Are most Aspie men so socially repressed?

[Anonymous]

I’m a woman with Asperger’s and I’ve started using a dating site called Hiki. I’ve attracted some ok seeming guys and a few hot ones, but once they swipe on me for a match, they won’t speak to me. All I did was introduce myself and ask about their week. It’s really annoying, but if I try NT sites, they’re full of men trying to use women sexually.

[Anonymous]

It's a dating app. Ask them about what kind of partner they are looking for long term. They are not there to talk casual with you. If you do that they will think you just want to be there friend or something.

You want them to take you seriously ask them what kind of relationship do they want. You start a conversation like that. "Oh you're doing today bob..." they hear someone talking to them like that all day. They are not there for small talk or to be in the friend zone.

[Asker]

Okay thanks, I’ll try that.

[Opinion Owner]

@asker or go to Church or date overseas. The only guys that date are the ones with good looks and money. Overseas you have similar guys, but with less trouble. The top men in America are very picky. And a normal nice guys don't date because they knows they has no chance against the top men in America.

[Softlife808]

You have aspergers so shouldn't you know the answer to this question? Also, there is a such thing as a man not being interested in you.

[Asker]

Yes there is, but why act interested if you’re not? Aren’t you just being the dick who wastes my time?

[Softlife808]

He's showing you he's not interested in you. You just won't go away