Why are men of this generation unmasculine?

[Anonymous]

How times have changed

Maculinity in both personality and appearance is a far cry in todays men. Most men act like complete wussies and are not leaders. What happened?

[Tdieseler]

OMG @ladsin @coachTanthony @gps181 @Mistnigqa808 @MrOracle

ain't this the shit we have been talking about?, all the fucking pussy whipped morons we are breeding these days... lol... and they wonder why women are walking all over them and they keep bowing lol.

Now to my opinion, darling don't generalize... the men are out there... the "no nonsense im a man and ima do this and you can take it or leave it" kind of men. The bad asses. They are out there. I think you just cast your fishing hook in the wrong dating pool.
is that guy taking a selfie?

[ladsin]

Haha umm. I don't think we've talked about this subject XD

[Tdieseler]

@ladsin Yea we have... you have read my takes ladsin... I've been bitching about this shit for years.

[ladsin]

Haha I haven't commented on any of your myTakes XD
I thought it would've been weird so I double-checked your takes.

I honestly don't have much of an opinion on this subject as most of it just seems like a cultural fad and one that I haven't particularly much witnessed in real life. I've always lived in areas where the sorts of fellows shown in the image on the right... well. I just haven't seen them.

[Tdieseler]

@ladsin I don't know... i see both. and frankly... where i stand? do you see that black line between both of them pics? IM in there lol

[ladsin]

Obviously there's a pretty vast gulf between people dressing in military garb and people dressing like weebs or whatever they're called.

I'm sure those sorts of people exist (guys on right) or there wouldn't be pictures of them. I've just never seen them before in real life. My ex was kind of flamboyant, but even that fella wasn't as crazy as the people above.

[Tdieseler]

@ladsin Your ex was a guy?

[ladsin]

Mm? Oh yeah. I thought that was known.

[Tdieseler]

@ladsin No, im actually surprised. i didn't know you were gay ladsin. well, that would explain a lot of the Takes of your i read... that is fucking awesome... we gotta talk more then lol.

[ladsin]

It's all good. Difficult to keep up with everyone. I'm bi though.
I talk a bit about it here
My Experiences Since I've "Come Out" ↗

Feel free to message me to keep up man.

[Tdieseler]

@ladsin fo' sure man... and bi? so im gonna ask the question i always ask bi people... what is your preference?

[ladsin]

I took the kinsey test and I score ~8 on physical attraction to men, 10 on physical attraction to women. 11 on "emotional attraction" to men and ~7 for women, and a 13 on overall sexuality if I recall correctly.

Basically more physically attracted to women, I get along better and share more interests with men, and I like sex.

[Tdieseler]

@ladsin can you give me a link to that test... and um... yea you have share more traits with men... you ARE a guy.. but women are the forbidden fruit.. so there is a curiosity... but i want that link

[ladsin]

I think this one works
http://vistriai.com/kinseyscaletest/
Yeah, that's pretty much my assessment too. The difference between myself and other fellas is that I won't bs anyone. I'm not going to pretend to like shit I don't like just to get some ass. Guy or gal if we get along, have a good time, and I'm attracted then it's all good. Other guys seem to feel somewhat "trapped" because they're only attracted to women.

[ladsin]

I lied that one is trash I'll find a better one.

[Tdieseler]

@ladsin oooook... but im still taking it lol... drunk enough to.

[ladsin]

Meh. I couldn't find the one I thought more comprehensive, this is at least better than the last.
http://drrobertepstein.com/ESOI/

[coachTanthony]

The world has definitely changed a bit. My story of walking down Chicago streets and not being able to tell the men from the women was quite disturbing. Men are much shorter, skinnier, and have many female characteristics. I would say in 30 years the world will truly be gender fluid. Evolution plays a part... that is the way the cookie crumbles! Ladies, get your Man's Man now before it's too late!

[Mistnigqa808]

i agree and talk about this all of the time at my job, ya know how we have these phagget ass little boys walking around? LOL

[Tdieseler]

@coachTanthony 😒 I think its those ladies who are creating these "gender-fluid" morons in the first place. women spend a vast amount of time trying to pull out emotions from guys and all that shit... we don't deal with that.

[Tdieseler]

@Mistnigqa808 lol..."faggot ass little boys"... i mean... even the gangstas ain't even gangstas no more... like back in the day, if you had beef with ONE guy... you said your shit, they step up to the plate, y'all duked it out... like MEN..
Now niggas is rolling 12 deep just to catch one mofo... wtf. or maybe... MAYBE they square up and one guy gets a beatdown, he runs home, grabs his.22, and here we go. fucking pussies.

[Mistnigqa808]

I'm LMAO since I've seen it happen way too often after a guy gets his ass whooped. like "BRUH IM ABOUT TO GO GET THE HEAT" while im like "or ya know he could just go take his bitch ass home and go play some Madden?" -_-

[Tdieseler]

@Mistnigqa808 Eddie Griffin said "hit the gym" lol. but i hate that shit... guns have turned men into pussies. hand-to-hand barely exists.

[ladsin]

Y'all finna catch these hands

[Tdieseler]

@ladsin hahahaha... i hope not... in your best interest. fuck hand... i do grapple.

[Tdieseler]

*hands

[ladsin]

Bruh. I'm 5'7 220. My ground game is pretty much the only way I can win cuz all the tall bastards try to run.
vignette.wikia.nocookie.net/.../latest

[Tdieseler]

@ladsin hell yea... ground is where its at.

[LegateLanius]

There's the fact that the picture on the Men then is merely men going to war.
You do realize that you had this back during the same time as the men then
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[Deydey12345]

I like it

[witherwing]

That's a ridiculous generalization. Just because people were forced to go to war doesn't make them masculine and just because a handful of men choose to dress a different way, doesn't mean today's men aren't masculine.

[ChocoLada]

Bullshit, look at this guy ;)
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[winterfox10]

There were a lot of things. 1. The Industrial Revolution took fathers away from their families, so the sons weren't being taught how to be men (break down of the familial unit). 2. Women of today try to act masculine, and society will frequently shut down and punish men who try to take a stand for themselves. 3. Men, especially white men (although I expect the race changes from country to country), have become the focus of jokes in media and advertising.

If you don't think 3 is a big deal, try to think of the last time you saw a commercial where the husband didn't make a complete ass of himself, and Wife/Mom swoops in to save the day. If you see that message often enough, you start to view yourself as inherently incompetent because of your gender.

[ladsin]

I honestly don't have much of an opinion on this subject as most of it just seems like a cultural fad and one that I haven't particularly much witnessed in real life. I've always lived in areas where the sorts of fellows shown in the image on the right... well. I just haven't seen them.

[DanBi03]

You make an assertion as if it was a fact. It is not :) human nature has not changed, there is simply more diversity.
Plus "masculinity" is an ambiguous concept. What does it really mean? Being macho? Not crying? Being dominant? Getting into fights?

[xTom98]

you basically took the worst examples and generalized it 🤦

there's plenty of men nowadays that look great and very masculin, also there's still a thing called army, the only diffrece is that the cameras are less shitty 😂

[roadrunner38]

I like how you show pictures of war even though most of the people who went to those wars you showed were total wusses. Most of the soldiers would completely lose it and wouldn't be able to shoot at the enemy even in their general direction most of the time. Get your facts straight before making accusations.

[ThirdEyeWide]

They're still real men. Sadly those are the ones who didn't conform to be something pathetic and spineless, just to seem more relatable to women. When masculinity is demons by women and cucks in media. Which is a disservice to everyone because real women don't want a soy boy that acts like a in door cat. Media has warped perception, therefore slowly shaping reality

[Lance1965]

I was talking about this to someone just a few days ago. We were talking about how the male pin-up men of the 70's looked more like men than the men of today that are deemed "sex symbols." It is also interesting that the male sex symbols from decades ago would be called mostly ugly by most women today.

[AdmiralBailey]

Oh, I don't know. High divorce rates; no fathers; feminism; prioritization of women in work and school; inherited a bad economy; sky high suicide and depression rates; opioid addiction. Men just don't feel like men anymore because feminism taught the last generation that masculinity is toxic.

[Anonymous]

You know, I do agree with you on certain levels. This probably goes some way towards explaining why I’m definitely more drawn to a decent guy in the military. Some just have those real admirable traits.

[Opinion Owner]

I prefer a rugged roll out of bed manly man over one that puts too much into his egotistical appearance any day!

[Deathraider]

I think you're selectively choosing pictures that support your point. Not all men back then were in the military and not all men today dress like that.

[andreasderjuengere]

Aaaaaaaaaaaaawwwwwwwwwww. Their moms made them like this. Don't blame the Fathers. At least we are all ''equal'' now. It had been the ladies' choice. Now eat what was cooked.

[Melliyoo]

Going to war is masculine then?
Also, I've seen guys like they are on the right side like once in my life, its definitely not a majority lmao

[MrKinktastic]

Mostly you're just idealizing the past. Though we are becoming less rigid in how we define masculinity.

[Shimy]

You know that all men don't look like that, right? In fact I've rarely seen men dressed up like that in the streets.
And you know that armies still exist?

[Jaximus-Lion]

Oh man! I wish this question gets like 100 plus comments. Am curious too, i have no idea why they act like that.

[Tdieseler]

read my opinion... i called in some members of the Church of Diesel.

[Oasha]

Wait, I don't get it, I thought women wanted men to just be themselves?

[Nik1hil]

They were Raised by Single Mom.. that is what happened..

[Nik1hil]

And its not her fault..
its their fathers fault who walked out on their mom.. and
were not there to teach them how to man up..

[blubblubblub]

They just have more freedom to embrace a feminine side. Less (compatively) judgements.

[jacquesvol]

What do you expect? Cowboys from the fifties B movies?

[Anonymous]

There is no "masculine" or "feminine", gender roles are just a social construct.