We've been together for 2 months and I realized that he looks at his ex girlfriend's facebook every day. When I asked him the reason, he told me that he just wants to be sure that his ex deleted their photos, but still she didn't. What should I tell him? I don't want him to look at his ex girlfriend's facebook every day...
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If he wants his ex girlfriend to delete pic they have together then he has to tell her that. That’s his rights and privacy. He should send his ex a message or call to ask to - remove the pictures. If he is very bothered his pic are up he can even kindly threaten her that he can take legal actions about it if she doesn’t remove those.
If he doesn’t go any of it then good luck he misses his ex. Its not the pic0
I don't think he is into his ex, I think his ex is still into him especially if she didn't remove the photos of them together on FB especially when he asked her to take them down but she didn't.
Just spend more time with him and be close.0
One, I think he should block her and tell him you are going to personally message her and ask her kindly to take them down. If he reacts like he doesn't want you to do that, he might be into her, or he wants to do it himself. If he wants to do it himself, make him message her in front of you.0
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Tell him to get over her, or get over both of you. Who cares if some pictures are on someone else's facebook, that's the lamest excuse I've ever heard to be obsessive about someone who doesn't want to see you any more.
It sounds like you're being used as a rebound.10
For a guy to do that , that’s pretty pathetic. and disrespectful , You should really
Reconsider that relationship cuz he clearly isn’t over his ex , Hiw would he feel if you were checking out your ex every day?0
Sounds like he's not fully over her. I checked on my exs fb after a long time to see if I was right about something. I was! She married the guy I was suspecting her of cheating on me with... 10 months after we split.0
Nah, he’s not fully over her and probably checking every day to see if she dates someone new. If they haven’t been broken up very long then sadly you may be a rebound.0
She still has his heart apparently.0
I think that behavior shows he is not fully over his ex. If he know this is bothering you, he should take it upon himself to stop that behavior. Suggestion would be to lay out a clear boundary with him. If he breaks it, I would move on.10
You should tell him you don't want him to look at her Facebook that it is disrespectful and hurts.0
Its obviously not normal. Tell him if he doesn’t stop you’re done with his pathetic ass. Dont be okay with being a second option.10
Tell him that living in the past can destroy the future. He can't grow in the past.
And fyi, he is not over her.0
no its not ok. he still has feelings for her that he needs to get over.0
It means he hasn't move on completely. To heal wounds one person must forget his /her past.13
TBH he is not over her and seems like your his rebound0
If you like him, don't bring this topic with him. He will eventually fall for you. Otherwise, it's better to leave him0
I think that's weird, shouldn't you kinda hate your ex, so why is he staring at her?0
Probably still into her.0
How are you 34 yet lack common sense?0
No and it’s disrespectful and rude. Dump him0
No not at all. It's weird0
No; it's not normal.0
That’s a lame ass excuse. He’s stalking her to see if she moved on and got another man yet. If you asked him straight up, he should’ve got the hint you don’t like it. And if he’s still doing it, it sounds like he’s still into her a lot. You might want to reconsider your relationship with him, don’t beg him to be treated right.