My husband likes to be left alone when it comes to having an argument that got heated. It is sometimes hard for me to understand that because usually when I’m upset I like to have comfort or reassurance. So sometimes I don’t really leave him alone, I go comfort him even though he is obviously still very upset. Should I stop doing that?
Yes, stop trying to engage with a man who is attempting to disengage. Men don't typically have the same sort of social support that women grow up experiencing and as such learn to sort through problems on our own.
Does he push you away or complain when you comfort him?
Yea technically that's when they keep thinking of the situation until they become numb about it
That's really sweet of you and caring too but everyone's different. Maybe give him the space when he needs it, or try to be subtle with interactions.
You should use your feet to calm him down. .
Yes; it's best to leave him alone.
