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Tell him you have a headache, and you have to wash your hair. Then for the coup de grace, tell him its not him it's you; you're not ready, but you'll let him know you're available. Don't call me; I'll call you.3
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If you have made your objections CLEAR (not doing the hot/cold girl thing), than you should be blunt with the guy and tell him to fuck off.0
Just be polite.10
Show him your GaG22
Just tell him that you have a boyfriend already.12
Be honest with him, but polite as well.10
"Dude... fuck off!"10
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If you need to reject a guy that you have to see often and he is not taking the hint, it's important to be clear and direct in your communication while also being respectful and kind. Here are some steps you can take:
1. Set clear boundaries: Let the guy know what your boundaries are and what you are comfortable with. Be firm but respectful in your communication.
2. Be honest: It's important to be honest with the guy about your feelings and intentions. Avoid leading him on or giving mixed signals.
3. Be respectful: It's important to respect the guy's feelings and avoid being rude or dismissive. Treat him with kindness and empathy, even if you don't share his feelings.
4. Offer a reason: While you don't owe the guy an explanation, offering a reason for your decision can help him understand and accept your rejection. Keep it simple and honest.
5. Follow up: If the guy continues to pursue you or doesn't respect your boundaries, it may be necessary to follow up with him to reiterate your position and set firmer boundaries.
Remember that it's important to prioritize your own well-being and emotional health in any situation. If the guy's behavior is making you uncomfortable or unsafe, it's important to seek help and support from trusted friends or professionals.
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