What signs do I look for?

[Anonymous]

I want to know when a guy is in a relationship with a girl but then finds he's become interested in her friend, what are the in between behaviors and signs he thinking if cheating with the friend?

[thebestalt]

Okay first, it is incredibly hard to follow this. The punctuation and grammar aren't the best. That's not knocking you, I do it all the time unintentionally. But what I think you mean...

You can never really tell if a person is going to cheat or not. There might be signs sure but people can read signs wrong all the time. Things are also incredibly nuanced and need a lot of context so without that, it's hard to give you proper advice. This is one of those broad questions that can't be answered thoroughly.

What I will say though is that you need to be honest or the girl needs to be honest with her partner about her supposed thoughts of him cheating. If she holds it in, that's where resentment forms and that's the beginning of the end. You're no longer or she's no longer able to trust him and he's not even aware as to why, how, or even that you don't trust him at all. And relationships last on trust. Either you or your friend be honest or sadly, begin the process of breaking up. But again, context would help a lot.

[Avicenna]

Probably tries testing the waters with inappropriate comments and physical touch

[DizzyDesii]

I missed all the signs because these two mfs argued all the time. I noticed now anytime your friend want your man or vice versa, they argue a lot. Its like a form of bombass makeup sex. So if you see them arguing or play fighting a lot or always talking shit about eachother, beware

[Jdjfjcjj]

Would the friend being the gatekeeper to her pussy allow it?

[spartan55]

Why would you do this? So gross.

[spartan55]

Why isn't this supposed friend shutting that shit down IMMEDIATELY? You women have zero shame I swear.

[Iron_Man]

You can tell the way he looks at her