I'm feeling a bit confused lately with a bisexual friend because not only did we go to a resort just the two of us, our dynamic is also too different from the usual friendships, like he invites me to his house sometimes and I can sleep on his bed. We are both commitment phobes.
He claims I'm special and that I'm his bestfriend. Sometimes he tells me he loves me. Then, he tells me that he is not my boyfriend and I should look for one. But I didn't do a thing. He just said that when he took videos of me when we were on a trip.
The whole trip he was really caring and we got to know each other. I know basically everything about his dating life and why he did not go out with those he didn't go out. He said he prefers the vibes over anything else.
He got my phone and I tried to grab it and he said, one thing he is proud of is that he never goes into phones of his exes. That felt a bit odd cause why compare to your exes. We started sharing our childhood stories then we keep bantering. We also both shared that we both want the other one to be happy.
Because I'm sickly, it got to the point that whenever it takes me a while to go out from the room, he suddenly appears and will ask if i'm okay. He also said when he's with me, it's never boring.
After the trip, we both thank each other for the time. I complimented him you're good in creating videos. Then, he said he'll make one for me. I did not expect that he suddenly created a video of me for the whole duration of the trip and I felt really touched.
He was like an assistant who took all video shots of me complete with caption and music. So, now I'm feeling a bit confused if this is all in my head or are there signs I should be aware of?
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Oh, the sweet confusion of love and friendship intertwined with a dash of ambiguity! From what you're sharing, it sounds like your bond has all the earmarks of something more than platonic, yet it's shrouded in a mist of mixed signals, especially with his insistence on not being your boyfriend. This rollercoaster of attention, care, and then abrupt reminders of your "friendship" status could indeed feel like a whirlwind.
The creating and sharing of the video? Honey, that's not just a friendly gesture; that's putting effort and emotion into something deeply personal. It's like he's curating moments that capture you, which is beyond what typical friends do. Yet, the push and pull of his actions versus words screams a classic case of emotional tug-of-war.
It seems like you both are skating on the thin ice of love and friendship, unsure whether to step back or plunge into the warm waters of a deeper relationship. My advice? Communication is key. It's time to have a heart-to-heart talk about what you both want from this unique connection. The signals are there, but only by peeling back the layers of these mixed messages can you discover the true nature of your relationship. 🎢❤️
Feeling lost in the signals? Let's decode them together! Feel free to reach out if you need a wingman or just a friendly ear. 😉
Yeah i kind of feel there's something in there but we choose not to entertain it but it's really in there. We also bought shirts for the fun of it but it turned out like a couple shirt. Needless to say, we both wore it still