What do the signs mean?

[Anonymous]

There’s a guy we go college together and we have a lot of sexual chemistry - I think.
I was under the impression it was just occasional hook ups and flirting but he is always trying to find times to kiss me.
The kisses are passionate but only kisses and nothing else but it’s becoming almost everyday.
Is this what guys do with casual partners or could he be catching some feelings?

[Xoxocutekitty]

You can have feelings for someone and still have no intention of committing or changing your lifestyle.

He's horny, he wants you, he likes physical connection. This has nothing to do with being a supportive partner or wanting to be a boyfriend unless you ask them directly.

[Asker]

Not wanting a supportive partner. I wanted to know if he’d caught feelings. I get he likes the connection. but if he’s horny and all he’s doing is kissing me isn’t really releasing him sexually is it? So it’s a pointless task for him, hence asking if he could be catching feelings

[Xoxocutekitty]

Usually it's in the eyes if he's catching feelings. When you wake up is he already looking at you or is he on his phone. Does he start or end sex abruptly? Does he try to get you to go on walks with him? Do you find yourself sitting at the kitchen counter while he puts together food for you (vs. Ordering out or letting you rustle around his fridge). If he's lingering when you leave (looking like a lost puppy) or tapping his foot anxiously checking at the time that says a lot.

[Anonymous]

Early 30's and you don't know? Really? Sigh.

[Asker]

Not really good with signals. 45 plus not really being helpful. Sigh.

[Opinion Owner]

What signals? Come right out and woman up and ask him what he's doing, or what his intent is, instead of asking an advice site. What kind of help do you need? We aren't able to provide you with the courage to help your love life. We're not in his head. We don't know what he's up to. You're in it. Ask him.