Guys, what signs would you give off to a girlfriend who moved away that you still want her?

[Bethany22]

Say a girlfriend moved far away from you in another town. If you still loved her, would you tell her about jobs available in your town that she could apply to, or would you only suggest companies she could apply to in the town that she now lives in? Would you take every opportunity to visit her if you could, or would you find excuses why you can't take the plane/train to visit? What other signs would you give off that you want her to move back, or would you show signs at all? Does a guy that doesn't show signs mean he's indifferent?

[Anonymous]

If he wants you he would show you either by actions or clearly give you a realistic idea of why he couldn’t make it.


2017, I don’t have license, I drove my Mercedes from sfo to Texas, registration is also not done, no insurance, didn’t had much money since I was at school for this girl.


Next week, I’m flying to Tennessee to meet a girl I’ve gone on a single date back in February this year, just to show I want to find and know more about her.


@bethany22 I want to go to meet you take you out on a date too. I thought crossing some states would would be fine. But looks like I have to cross oceans continents for you. 😍


Life is simple, getting no message is also a message.

[William7489]

Wait, you just said she is your girlfriend right? You really probably should not have to tell her that you’re still interested. I think I see what you’re saying though and if that’s the case then you definitely stay in touch on social media, try to make a road trip or two depending on the distance, invite her to where you are And make sure that you’re never far from her mind. Long distance relationships are really rough so the best thing to do is be together as much as possible. The travel is tough but it’s worth it. You’ve got to make the girl realize that you’re still willing and committed as long as she is. Remember it’s still takes two people

[kylee2437]

Effort is the number one thing in every relationship. If a guy isn’t giving effort towards something, that means he’s not committed

[NathanDavis]

none of that...

way before she moves to a different location, we would both have already discussed about it and reached a compromise for which we both are okay with it and WILLING to go with it

that's the grown-up way to do things, and the proper way to communicate with one another in a relationship

[Sixgunsound]

If I break up with someone they’re dead to me. This half measures crap just waste a lot of time and money and effort and emotional distress.

[Sixgunsound]

If there was a good enough reason to break up, what’s the point of remaining in contacts? Either it was good enough for it wasn’t? Were you an idiot then or are you an idiot now is the question people who backslide should be asking themselves.

[Jdjfjcjj]

Neither person should move that fast. We haven't even addressed how the woman feels. Why she left in the first place.

[Havthrills]

About what you asked. Let he know of jobs around here and also discuss jobs around her. Discuss the difference between the two places and see what would be a good fit for us.

[Chazmatazz269]

“Signs”? I’d use my words like a big boy does. Ell oh ell!

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I would send her text messages/ letters by emails telling her how I feel about her, etc.

[worldscolide]

I wouldn't. I don't do long distance. I would either move with her if she was worth it, or I would break it off if she was not.

[KrakenAttackin]

If she jetted once, she will do it again. He may just remember good sex and want to figure out how to hit it again.

[scooogy]

[pizzalovershouse]

Not much you can do but say how you felt before she moved

[clampfan101]

With enough courage, I’d simply ask her if she would want me.

[Debbie14217]

just tell me...

[Guardian45]

Tell her

[CubaPirate]

Man up and just tell her out right

[Anonymous]

I would try sexting with her.