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I know a lot of women wonder this..
1. what are the signs you look for or what tells you she's the 'one' ?
2. What signs do you as a guy give off which could indicate that you see your partner as marriage material?
If she has good morals , a good heart and personality, she values relationships and she is loyal and honest and doesn’t cheat , She doesn’t withhold intimacy and affection to get her way She chooses me like I choose her , , she has my back like I have hers , she makes me her top priority the same way I make her mine , over everyone else , she isn’t selfish , she knows how to remove selfishness , she wears my shoes the same way she expects me to wear hers before making decisions , we work as a team and not against each other , she is capable of keeping a job and doesn’t think she was put on Earth to be catered to , we work together to have nice things together , not one sided , she no longer acts like she is single and follows the boundaries her and I set together , she wants to bring happiness into my life , not misery , she understands nothing is perfect and that we will face whatever obstacles that try to come in our path together She values me Like I value her , we are honest with each other and don’t keep secrets from each other and
We openly Communicate with each other without bashing or criticizing each other , we fix whatever is broken together , that’s a girl I would marry, I can only give my heart to a girl that gives me her heart as well , it needs to go both ways or it’s just a waste of time , basically thank you for a good
Time but not a long, if a girl doesn’t make me her
Top priority , she won’t be mine period
1.
- She has good values, things I want in my children, such as good manners, respect, life morals, etc.
- She has a natural maternal instinct and is good with kids.
- She is willing to make sacrifices in the moment for what’s important to her.
- She’s mature and knows what love and commitment mean.
2.
- I stay with her long-term and make sure she knows I’m in it for the long-term. I let her know my expectations and intentions.
- I talk about kids and family with her and casually see if there’s potential for us.
- I do a lot more for her than I would if she was just someone I’m not planning to stay with. I treat her well to show her I’m serious and I want her to be with me lifelong so I’ll make it pleasant for her.
- I get to know her more thoroughly, not just the things I like but also I want to know where I might need to make sacrifices.
- I give her access to my funds/bank account, just in case she ever has an emergency.
- I’m willing to let her move in with me.
- I’m willing to have sex with no birth control use.
- I want her to be close to my family. I let her meet them and want them to stay in contact.
1. If she accepts me with my flaws. I'd accept her with her flaws too.
If she is kind and respectful towards me. If she doesn't offend on everything quickly. If she is down to Earth. If she has humbleness in her.
If I'm her only exclusive guy. If she flirts with me only. If she has good sense of humor.
If she takes interest in me, caring and solely loves me and talks with me as much as possible.
If she isn't greedy, rude or selfish.
If we both have some common interests, common thinking.
If she puts efforts in me, is genuine, caring, mature and serious lady. If she's romantic she's my type. If she's family oriented that's nice.
If she trusts me and doesn't hesitate to discuss everything with me. If she is committed to me solely.
2. I'd discuss with her about relationship, marriage, kids and future together.
I'd give her my max. Time.
I'd date her, kiss her, hug her.
I'd introduce her with my parents.
I'd hold her hands in public and give her roses all time.
I'd marry that girl for sure.
What I think is the first thing to look for is the heart. If someone does not have a good heart. Move on. They aren’t worth your time not a nanosecond.
The next thing is just seeing if you’re compatible. For everyone what they’re wanting and needing is different. Some people get upset and hate the entire other sex for not meeting their romantic and/or sexual and romantic standards and preferences. Which is stupid. We need to be focused on finding our soulmate. Not every woman or man is right.
Me personally I need someone who agrees with me religiously to a point, politically, and other things like that. I’m not saying we can’t have our differences. But not stuff that would be a deal breaker. I want a woman who feels the same on topic such as abortion among other things.
I need someone whose nurturing and supportive. Who I can be venerable or let my guard down around. Some men believe you can’t be your true self or show emotion around your woman. I feel bad for these men as they just live such miserable lives and their relationships usually get worse and worse until they end in disaster.
I feel bad for Christian men who don’t know what a virtuous woman is or a woman who doesn’t create shaking knees, but not comforting her man during hard times.
But a lot of people marry someone they knock up or get knocked up by. If someone just sleeps around they probably won’t find a decent partner. It’s just the truth. People can change. But change comes when someone wants to change. Not allowing the weeds to drag them back into it. The weeds of their life.
Here's a list in rough order of importance:
Guys will make it obvious when they take you seriously.
Guys get married when they are ready, when they feel they are emotionally and financially ready. Given the current state of the economy, it's harder to be financially ready. There really aren't any things you can do to make yourself more likely to be seen as marriage material to him. It doesn't have much to do with you. Most guys aren't ready emotionally before their late 20s, financially they may never be.
If she cares as much about me as I do about her. Before I even figure that out, she's going to have to pass my ridiculously long list of requirements
Literally inner quality’s and morals. Trust is a big one. Chemistry. What her values are. If she has grown up or is still acting immature. Is she someone that you want raising your kids? Can’t be promiscuous. These are things I look for. When there are no red flags and I can fully trust the person I’ll want to marry her but even if I’m madly In love it does not override these requirements
Well she has to be intelligent and nurturing kind and considerate with a good personality
Empathy and intelligence are a must for me. It also helps if we enjoy doing some of the same activities. Good income is a huge bonus.
her happy carefree playful nature, and her emotional maturity, and her nurturing abilities like showing affection and patience and understanding
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