Why don't some girls give guys a chance?

[BlueVisionMCU]

I don’t understand girls sometimes. Some of you indicate and give off signs that you’re not interested, when you don’t respond back, but haven’t even gotten the chance to get to know the guy yet. Don’t get it honestly. There could be something you like about him and you don’t even know it yet.

I messaged someone I used to work with and they read my message, but didn’t respond back and it’s been a week. I don’t like her sexuality. I’m interested and would like to get to know her more because she’s goofy and funny, has a good personality, very smart, isn’t selfish, very nice and knows how to treat others, keeps things real and is a great person to work with.

I started off the conversation by asking where she took those amazing sunset pictures on her Instagram. I didn’t hint at being interested in her or anything along those lines for her not to respond, but she still didn’t respond back to me. We’re friends on Facebook and both follow each other on Instagram. I unsent the message because I’m assuming that she doesn’t want to tell me. I don’t know.

She had a complicated relationship with someone her and I worked with. She’s not in a relationship anymore. My only guess on why she didn’t respond back to me is because I’m older, than her. She’s 19 years old and I’m 28 years old, but why be friends with me on social media, if that’s the reason. I’m only assuming things at this point. We’ve talked before as co-workers, so I’m confused.

I want to message her again, but I don’t know what to say. I don’t want to give up because I might like something about her that I may not know about because I haven’t fully talked to her outside of work.

[jennifer_bloom]

Clarify your interest and good intention and let her decide how she wants to proceed. I know hiding interest can be counter productive because you are less likely to get the type of relationship you want if you do not request it or seek it out.

[BeyondHuman]

Worry less about someone who isn't clicking with you.

The harder you try to engage in a relationship with someone who doesn't even seem to try themself or even showing interest. How in the world do you think you could possibly please them to keep the relationship going? You will exhaust yourself trying to please her just to learn later of her breaking up.

She's 19 and you are 28. 95% of the time young people haven't made up their minds what they even want. Chances are she would cheat on you by the time she turns 25 just because she wanted to try that "other" guy out.

I've seen it happen too many times save yourself the heartache and move on.

[In_Trance]

For this very same reason you don't give every girl a chance. sometimes it's just not a good fit and most times experience tells you so. You save yourself the trouble and move on

[BlueVisionMCU]

You don’t know, if it’s a good fit, until you give it a shot. That’s with everything in life. I just don’t know why she didn’t at least answer my question. It’s strange. What should I say, since it’s been a week?

[Avicenna]

There can be many reasons why a guy won't get the positive feedback he desires. Just talk to a different woman.

[DragonXR]

Imma be straight with you. No one , and I mean NO ONE is entitled to give anyone a change for the sake of it. If this chick doesn't responed , so be it , move on.

[BlueVisionMCU]

Very true, but why take the time to read my message then? Just delete my message without reading it. Obviously, you don’t know because you’re not her, but I’m just saying in general.

[Iron_Man]

Some are real picky and get confused they don’t know what they want