I don't understand why?

[JR12345]

there is a guy he is very shy and he doesn't talk to girls much. I and him were friends he doesn't like me when i told him why are not talking to girls if you are not talking and make friends then whom will you date or marry i told. guess it was triggering him then he stopped chatting. Then suprisingly he talked to a girl. What i did was right?

[Anonymous]

It's understandable that you were trying to encourage your friend to be more social and open to making new connections, including with girls. However, it's important to remember that everyone has their own pace and comfort level when it comes to socializing and dating. It's possible that your comment may have triggered some feelings of insecurity or anxiety for your friend.

In general, it's important to approach conversations about dating and relationships with sensitivity and respect for the other person's feelings and boundaries. It's good that you offered to be there for your friend if he wanted to talk, but it's also important to give him space and not push him beyond his comfort level. It's possible that your friend started chatting with the girl for his own reasons, and not necessarily because of something you said or did.

Moving forward, you could try to approach conversations with your friend with more empathy and understanding, and avoid making assumptions or judgments about his choices. Instead of pushing him to talk to girls, you could simply be a supportive friend and let him know that you're there for him regardless of his dating life.

[JR12345]

But don't get wrong. I understand you but you know that even his male friends told to generally talk to girls he didn't do but when i said he did. Only girls come chat with him. he never talk to any girl before. After that incident we are not talking he stares my eye even if i don't. Checks if i stares him back or not. Even if i turn he makes me in a way to stare him back too. He is now in relationship with that girl but he stares at me even if she is not there. He always stares at me i too stare at him if i turn he also turn.

[Opinion Owner]

Based on what you're describing, it's possible that this guy may still have feelings for you, even though he's in a relationship with someone else. However, it's important to remember that staring at someone can make them uncomfortable and it's not a healthy way to express interest or attraction. If you're uncomfortable with his behavior, it's best to distance yourself and avoid interactions that could lead to further misunderstandings or complications. It's also important to respect his current relationship and not engage in any behavior that could be seen as trying to come between him and his partner.

[JR12345]

But i don't understand why he didn't talk to a girl directly even his friends told him that might be triggering him so many times. but when i said he did. we are just friends before but he knew i had something on him also he always stares at me before he was in relationship and if that girl is not there he stares at me if i turn he turns and I am from india we take stares as liking usually

[JR12345]

I don't understand his behaviour as a guy you can connect

[JR12345]

But i don't understand why he didn't talk to a girl directly even his friends told him that might be triggering him so many times. but when i said he did. we are just friends before but he knew i had something on him also he always stares at me before he was in relationship and if that girl is not there he stares at me if i turn he turns and I am from india we take stares as liking usually

[arodriguez664]

He's in a relationship. He's committed therefore he shouldn't pursue any other options. If he's confused about what he wants, it sounds like a him problem and has nothing to do with you 👌

[Anonymous]

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