When a guy calls your dad, “my other dad” is he trying to tell you he sees you as his sister and no romantic feelings are present?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

It's possible that the guy is simply using a friendly or joking way to refer to your dad as someone who is important to him, like a second father figure. It doesn't necessarily mean that he sees you as his sister or that there are no romantic feelings present.

However, without more context and information about the nature of your relationship with this guy, it's difficult to say for sure what his intentions or feelings are. If you have concerns or questions about your relationship with him, it's best to communicate directly with him and have an open and honest conversation about how you both feel.

[slatyb]

Not necessarily. Do you want to date him? Maybe you should just ask him. Maybe he wants to date you too but he's afraid to ask.

[Asker]

I’d love to, but it’s not a simple situation. Essentially I have to wait for him to make the first move.

[slatyb]

Why?

[Asker]

He has a daughter (who I got to know first) and he’s also friends with my dad. Not the same age as my dad. Just his friend.

[slatyb]

He has a daughter? So? You aren't 18. Just ask him.

[Asker]

No, it messes with the dynamic he has with my dad. That’s why it needs to be him and not me.

[slatyb]

Maybe talk to your dad?

[Sparkie460]

It means he wants to marry you. That's the only time I ever called my girlfriends father dad

[Asker]

Unfortunately I am not dating him.

[goaded]

Future father in law?

[Asker]

Lol I wish.