WHAT DO I DO? WHAT DOES HE MEAN? SOS HELP?

[Anonymous]

So this guy and I have been talking everyday. our phone conversations can last from an hour to 7 hours. One night he randomly told me he was crushing on me and really liked me. It was weird because it was out of the blue. He told me that he had thought about it for a couple days and decided to tell me how he felt, but now it seems different to me. He is like not texting as much and does not seem that interested anymore. What does that mean?

[MementoMori777]

Did you start unintentionally treating him different than before when receiving this knowledge on how he feels about you?

[Asker]

No, the conversation has been the same, that’s what’s so confusing to me. He started acting different after he told me.

[MementoMori777]

Maybe he regrets telling you and is acting off cause he's stuck in his mind about it

[Asker]

So do I just leave him alone? Do I bring it up?

[MementoMori777]

Let it be for now, if you see it keeps going after some time or it gets worse that's when you should bring it up

[Asker]

Yeah I’m done reaching out. If he wants to talk he has my number

[MementoMori777]

Sounds fair

[Anonymous]

7 hours on call? You guys even worked?
Lol if you spend that much time with dog then you get atteched to dog too.. so it's normal..

[Asker]

So he doesn’t like me? He’s just attached?

[Opinion Owner]

Absolutely ma'am

[Asker]

So then why did he tell me he liked me? Why was he thinking about it before he told me if it’s just simple attachment?

[Opinion Owner]

You see ma'am liking is not a big deal... you can start liking dog if you spend that much time with eachother. It's normal.

You wanna know his feelings for you?

[Asker]

Yes I’d like to know how he feels about me

[Asker]

But after he told me he liked me , he started to text less. The vibe changed

[Opinion Owner]

After liking you text less vibe change? Wtf 😂 isn't it's weird?

[Asker]

That’s what I’m saying. It’s taking hours for him to reply now, but before it would take less than an hour. It’s so strange

[Opinion Owner]

Told you so baby it's just a attachment... well come to pm

[spartan55]

Well what did you say on response? Pretty important detail you left out for some reason.

[Asker]

I told him that I liked him too. I told him that the feeling was mutual. I also said that it’s really hard for me to express my feelings but that I do like him and that he’s really cool & im glad we met. I just find it odd that he hasn’t brought that conversation up & I don’t want to because it might be awkward

[spartan55]

You will have many awkward conversations throughout your life.

[Asker]

Well I don’t really want to reach out because he hasn’t texted me all day, so I might bring it up when we have a steady conversation. I’m just not going to reach out tho. I texted him last , like 8-9 hours ago

[spartan55]

Oh, you are into all those texting scorecard games... ridiculous.

[Asker]

Well I’m not going to triple text him to get his attention. He got my text from earlier and chose not to respond. I’m not going to keep texting him and him not responding, it doesn’t make any sense. When he wants to talk , he will but I’m not going to blow up his phone.

[spartan55]

Did your messages require any response from him?

[Asker]

Yes it did. I asked a question pertaining to what he said he was doing. That’s what’s so weird , but tbh idc anymore. If he can’t communicate , I don’t have the time

[spartan55]

There's certainly more to communicating than texting. Texting should be what you use the least

[Asker]

Well all we could do was text and call because we are in different states. We just started communicating after 5 years of no communicating. We used to be friends/ acquaintances in school , but then we just stopped talking altogether after high school

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Sounds like he's playing some kind of hot and cold type game.

[Asker]

Hmm… people don’t do that when they like someone tho, so I think I’ll just leave him alone. I’m too old to be playing games

[ImalwaysrightOK]

It's always bad to play along with games.

[Asker]

Exactly so I’m just going to stop texting him.