Why is he still following me?

[Anonymous]

i used to work with this guy and had a crush on him. He was really funny at work one minute would talk to me then the next not really care i existed. We had a few conversations but he made it clear he wasn't looking for any relationships. He stopped texting and calling me for a while and i gave up texting him because he will just respond once or a few times and stop. His last day at my job, he approached me and I asked why didn't he talk to me anymore and he blamed me but let me know he was going to call me. He called me for one day and that was it. He texted me but never texted back when i replied. We sent each other videos on tiktok and he stopped replying too. A few days later I uploaded a picture and he finally texted me back and said he missed me but i never texted back. <--- all of that was months ago and he still follows me on social media. I blocked him which made him forcefully unfollow me. He follows me again soon and liked this old tiktok I sent him months ago. I haven't follow him back and I still upload videos and he is always in my views.

[GreekLorrd]

It's difficult to know for sure why someone is still following you on social media, as there could be a variety of reasons. However, based on the information you've provided, it sounds like he may still have some level of interest in you. It's possible that he's hoping to reconnect with you at some point in the future, or he could just be curious about what you're up to.

It's important to remember that you have the right to control who you interact with and who has access to your social media content. If you're uncomfortable with him following you or viewing your content, you have the option to block him or adjust your privacy settings. If you do decide to reconnect with him, it may be helpful to have an open and honest conversation about your expectations and boundaries in order to avoid any misunderstandings or hurt feelings in the future.

[Anonymous]

There’s no way to know exactly why he decides to do this or that. Some guys are wishy washy, some do things when they’re bored or curious, there’s a plethora of motives just as there would be for why a woman decides to do something. It varies from person to person is what I’m saying. So instead of giving him any kind of attention whether he knows you are or not, move on from him. You already know everything you need to know about what dealing with him will bring, and it doesn’t match what you want. There’s no need to bother with that guy and if he does reach out, ignore it, you know he’s got nothing nee to say or bring to the table.