we went on two dates in late January had an intimate moment I walked out on him the second time we met during the deed cause he went s*ft and tried to get me to stay over at his and not see my friends also wanted oral when I had tonsilliris. I blocked him as he was also taking c*ke. I ended up unblocking apologising days later after that I never heard from him he blocked me back he unblocked me a week ago added me yesterday. I had drunk texted him a lot last month which is why he blocked. Does it seem he’s trying to use me
I mean. It looks like you were trying to do the same and use him for something as well. You have responsibility in this. You all just need to mature into adults more.
Women use men as much as men use women. The difference is, men aren’t “allowed” to call it that by women or it’s a sexist patriarchy… and all the feminists come out with pitch folks and torches. We are only getting one side to this story and that’s yours. But you wouldn’t have approached him or done anything with him unless you wanted something from him.
I made a mistake I was being immature. I don’t know how to take him though because he said he will always have time for me and don’t worry about what happened. But if he doesn’t care why ignore me for 3 months
I could wait a few weeks and ask to hang out cause clearly if it still is on my mind I did have feelings for him. But moving on sounds more practical long term
It's not obvious he was looking for an exclusive relationship with you. Was he? It sounds to me more like he has time to fuck you whenever you want though.
Yeah the “you can come see me if you like” it’s like because I drunk texted him so much he thought I would’ve jumped at the chance but at least I shut it down now
