Does it seem like he just wants to use me?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

we went on two dates in late January had an intimate moment I walked out on him the second time we met during the deed cause he went s*ft and tried to get me to stay over at his and not see my friends also wanted oral when I had tonsilliris. I blocked him as he was also taking c*ke. I ended up unblocking apologising days later after that I never heard from him he blocked me back he unblocked me a week ago added me yesterday. I had drunk texted him a lot last month which is why he blocked. Does it seem he’s trying to use me

[motownplayer2000]

I mean. It looks like you were trying to do the same and use him for something as well. You have responsibility in this. You all just need to mature into adults more.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

What makes you think I was using him? I know it’s my fault it just sucks

[motownplayer2000]

Women use men as much as men use women. The difference is, men aren’t “allowed” to call it that by women or it’s a sexist patriarchy… and all the feminists come out with pitch folks and torches. We are only getting one side to this story and that’s yours. But you wouldn’t have approached him or done anything with him unless you wanted something from him.

[Anonymous]

Why would you walk out on him when he gets soft? Erectile dysfunction is an issue that has nothing to do with you, you know.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I made a mistake I was being immature. I don’t know how to take him though because he said he will always have time for me and don’t worry about what happened. But if he doesn’t care why ignore me for 3 months

[Opinion Owner]

despite what he says he probably didn't like you blocking him. that may be why.

or its possible he was seeing another girl during that time. and maybe that didn't pan out so he's going back to you.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

That’s what I think, he moved on and it didn’t work out so he’s giving me the benefit of the doubt. I guess either way I’m probably best moving on

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I could wait a few weeks and ask to hang out cause clearly if it still is on my mind I did have feelings for him. But moving on sounds more practical long term

[Anonymous]

He wants to have sex with you. That much is clear. Why do you want to hang out with him?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Still have feelings for him :/

[Opinion Owner]

If you have feeling for him, why did you dump him?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I just panicked. I’ve never been in a relationship before. He said he always will have time for me. Does that mean he still likes me

[Opinion Owner]

It's not obvious he was looking for an exclusive relationship with you. Was he? It sounds to me more like he has time to fuck you whenever you want though.

[Opinion Owner]

Is he especially in to big tits by chance?

[Anonymous]

Relaxed no one use fat women for sex..
Unless he is simp.

[MrCommodore]

Yes, he's looking for a casual ride.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I agree but he did say he will always have time for me after I apologised about how I left things. Maybe still has interest? I don't know

[MrCommodore]

Maybe, it's hard to know really.

[mattc007007]

This dude sounds awful regardless. STAY FAR AWAY.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

He said he’d always have time for me I asked earlier. Do you think he does have feelings?

[LazerBean]

Yeah.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I ignored him.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Well obviously not then but now I have

[TallAnon]

Yeah

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Because he asked me to come to his place right? With no other option offered?

[TallAnon]

Also very dismissive behaviour, doesn't care about what you do

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Yeah the “you can come see me if you like” it’s like because I drunk texted him so much he thought I would’ve jumped at the chance but at least I shut it down now

[TallAnon]

Yeah, good on you 😊