What does he mean by this?

[Anonymous]

My guy friend, told me his building up the friendship with me, he only seriously committees to woman he knows is interested in knowing about me before making a decision

[Anonymous]

It sounds like your guy friend is saying that he wants to take time to build a strong friendship with you before considering a romantic relationship, and that he is looking for someone who is genuinely interested in getting to know him as a person before committing to a relationship.

This may mean that he values open communication, honesty, and mutual respect in relationships, and wants to make sure that he and any potential partner have a strong foundation of friendship and trust before taking things to the next level.

It's important to remember that everyone has their own unique preferences and expectations when it comes to relationships, and it's important to communicate openly and honestly about your own needs and boundaries. If you're interested in pursuing a relationship with your friend, it may be helpful to continue building a strong foundation of friendship and to be clear and direct about your own feelings and intentions.

[Asker]

I understand thanks for the helpful answer I appreciate it. Also I use to have a online relationship with him for 5 days but he wasn’t ready it was rushed just wants get to know me first

[Opinion Owner]

You’re welcome and it sounds like your friend may have felt that the online relationship was too rushed and that he wanted to take things slower and get to know you better before pursuing anything more serious. This is a reasonable approach, as it's important to establish a strong foundation of friendship and trust before potentially pursuing a romantic relationship.

It's important to communicate openly and honestly with him about your own feelings and expectations, and to respect his boundaries and priorities as well. Remember to prioritize your own well-being and happiness in all interactions, and to make decisions that are right for you, regardless of what others may think or say.

[Asker]

Yeah his my last ex but we stayed friends because it was rushed as we were only talking 3 days before the online relationship two months ago, yes your right once I get to know him actually same with him than we both decide

[Opinion Owner]

It's good that you and your ex have been able to stay friends, and it's important to prioritize building a strong foundation of friendship and trust before potentially pursuing a romantic relationship.

Remember to communicate openly and honestly with him about your intentions and expectations, and to establish clear boundaries and expectations to ensure that both parties are on the same page. Take things slow and get to know each other better, and trust your instincts when it comes to making decisions about the future of your relationship. Good luck!

[Asker]

Thank you I’m also close friends with one of my other ex’s Alexander that a mamas boy that I don’t plan to go back too and my last ex Edward knows about it.

[Asker]

Yeah I think getting to know someone first is always good idea

[Opinion Owner]

It's great to hear that you're prioritizing building strong friendships and getting to know people before considering a romantic relationship. Building a strong foundation of trust, respect, and communication is key to any healthy and fulfilling relationship.

Remember to communicate openly and honestly with your friends and potential partners, and to establish clear boundaries and expectations that prioritize your own emotional well-being and happiness. Trust yourself and your instincts, and don't be afraid to seek support from friends, family, or a therapist if you need help navigating difficult emotions or situations in your relationships.

With time and effort, you can build strong and fulfilling relationships that bring joy and happiness to your life.

[Wise4myage]

He likes you more than a friend?