Why would guy talk to me about how many kids he wants to have. He also asked me how much I want to have. We are talking for a month now?

[Anonymous]

Is he considering relationship/ marriage with me or something?

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[LocoLuna]

On the first date that I went with on a guy he asked me how long I wanted to wait before I got married I said 5 years. Then he asked me how long I wanted to wait before kids. I said 10 years. I was a little off put. Ironically enough, we've been married for 13 years now. And share a beautiful child.

[devilish-cutie]

if you haven't met him in rl just consider it as getting to know eachother, nohing more than that

[Asker]

So it’s a common question in your opinion in the beginning stages lol?

[devilish-cutie]

well yeah its about getting o know someone, if he is a serious guy looking for something serious he will do something about it, not just say it

[Asker]

What kind of things would he do about it?

[devilish-cutie]

ask you on dates, want to see you regulary, respect your boundaries, be kind with you, want to be exclusive... show constant effort basically

[Asker]

He has asked me out

[FilmGuy93]

Yeah, he's just trying to figure out if you want the same things in life as he does.

[Asker]

So does he really like me?

[FilmGuy93]

I have no idea. He's probably still figuring that out.

[Asker]

But isn’t that too personal thing to ask?

[FilmGuy93]

Not really... people, mature adults especially, tend to want to avoid wasting time in dating. Whether or not you want kids isn't a particularly private piece of information, and it's important to know whether your wants in life generally line up early on.

[dudeinohio]

I'd say he's seeing if you qualify for a relationship.

[Asker]

So it’s a common question in your opinion in the beginning stages lol?

[dudeinohio]

I'd say so, yes. You guys are getting to know one another and seeing where things go

[Anonymous]

He's probably just trying to get to know you better. I wouldn't read too much into it.

[noohair]

That is marriage talk.

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[noohair]

So you are 30+ years old and I guess the guy is in the same age range. These are topics a man and women talk about when they plan a family. Why would a thirty year old women not understand this?

[Asker]

But me and him are only in the beginning stages

[noohair]

I and him, not me.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he is dropping hints.

[Asker]

What kind of hints? We are in the beginning stages only…

[Opinion Owner]

That he likes you and gives you compliments.

[Asker]

Whats compliment was there lol …

[Asker]

Sorry was compliment that he asked how many kids I would like?