I’ve only been dating my new boyfriend a month but he’s told his family and friends about me, shows them pictures of me etc?

[Anonymous]

I don’t know why, I find this abit much. I’ve been dating him for around a month now. He has a group chat with his family where he talks about me sometimes, and shares pictures of me ( his family lives abroad). He’s also told his friends about me. He’s told me he’s going to make a folder with our pictures together soon.

We do get on well and see eachother often but I feel this is all a little too soon. I wish he’d just leave this for a few months to make sure. What are your opinions on this? Do you also think it is a little too much?

[EonDallet]

Consider it this way: he seems to be very interested in you and proud to be with you, which is something someone with serious intentions would do. It's better for him to express it now rather than later. Eventually, months will pass and you will get there. Don't be troubled by it, let him have his fun and be proud of you as his girl. If it reaches a point that really bothers you, just communicate your concerns to him and have an open discussion. You'll be able to find a place where you both can express yourselves and find a common ground.

[FilmGuy93]

You are allowed to feel however you want to feel about it, but from my perspective; it's really not that big of a deal.

[Anonymous]

I don't think it's too much. I think that means he's serious about you which is a good thing.

[mb120101]

Id rather my new girlfriend show me off than keep it lowkey because then it means she has doubts from the start

[noohair]

His family dynamics might be different that yours. So your perception does not match his. He is showing you how he interacts and this is good for you to know to make decisions about moving forward.