What does it mean when guy playfully says that he wants to show me places on his neighborhood?

[Anonymous]

Is it flirty comment?

[Anonymous]

I mean some additional context would help. Based off this alone it doesn’t sound flirty but I don't know what you two had been talking about, who you are to each other, etc.

[Asker]

Just guy that I’ve been chatting on facebook.

[Opinion Owner]

Talking to romantically? Because if so then sure, I’d say it could be flirty but it would’ve been more suggestive if he actually invited you to visit.

[Asker]

But he come from culture where that is perceived very inappropriate

[Opinion Owner]

So have you been talking as just friends? Do you know him from the past? If it’s yes to one or both of these then it’s probably friendly then. That’s why I said it matters who you are to each other for this to make sense. If you flirt often or interested in one another or something more suggestive

[Asker]

No and no. He’s asked me out to grab a coffee. We are going out soon

[Opinion Owner]

So you’re romantically interested, why delve into that with him if it’s inappropriate for him? Are you the same cultural background?

[Asker]

Yes I am

[Opinion Owner]

Is this appropriate for you?

[Asker]

No really, I wouynever visit guys house by myself

[Opinion Owner]

I’m not talking about visiting his house, I mean flirting with him, potentially getting coffee and all that. If it’s wrong for him, isn’t it for you as well?

[Asker]

Ooh okay. I’m okay with going etc. light flirting is also okay.

[In_Trance]

Why do you suspect there's something other than what's said at face value?