Does He or Doesn't He?

[Anonymous]

I've been with my boyfriend for 3.5 years and we live together. It's not that I get mixed signals from him, it's no verbal affirmations. He goes to work and kisses me and says love you, hangs up from phone calls saying love you but in between that, I just keep wondering. He does things for me, hands me money at yard sales, pays for the meals out, used to pick me wild flowers but I don't feel what I felt at the beginning and I know that's the honeymoon stage. He's not a big conversationalist either. My opinion is he just says what I want to hear. Help.

[Iron_Man]

What is it that you’re looking for exactly romantic meals out and vacations? What is missing communication?

[AlexisDiani]

Sounds like a nice guy. Do you think he gets what he needs from you? Have you talked to him about your needs? Talk to him.

[Anonymous]

Yea I’m also not getting the affirmation I need lately. It hurts

[SAMI_DABBAB]

Maybe you just have expectations and his style of showing love does not meet them

[Anonymous]

"he just says what I want to hear"

Sorry, but that sums up most men in a nutshell.

[Ur1local2bisexual]

I can’t help sorry girl