What does it mean when a guy saves all of the snapchat pictures, songs, replies to his snapchat stories into the chat?

[Anonymous]

side note: we’re friends with benefits and it’s not just sexual snaps

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also when i go to our chat convo randomly to look at old stuff saved his little bitmoji pops up meaning he’s viewing the chat too…. I don't know if that means anything

[spartan55]

It means he loves you and wants to marry you instead of just using you for sex.

[Asker]

hahaha I don't know about that

[spartan55]

Okay, he's just using you for sex.

[Anonymous]

My brother does this, he doesn’t want to forget what one woman said vs another lol since the chat will otherwise delete immediately or in 24 hours.

[Asker]

yeah but how old is your brother bc me and this dude are grown lol and i save his stuff he sends but that’s bc i like him and also so it won’t disappear in 24hrs

[Opinion Owner]

My brothers 29 and I’m hoping he will commit and settle down with a woman one day for our moms sake haha. But for now that’s what he does. He doesn’t talk to a bunch of women, maybe 2 or 3, but he saves their messages so he doesn’t forget what’s said. I won’t say it’s always him not wanting to mix women up or anything but since the chat disappears so quick, sometime he saves it if he can’t reply right then, even that part he does with friends.

[Asker]

okay that makes sense and i do it too even with friends. when he saves my comment on his story into the chat is what confuses me the most like why are you saving my response to the one you posted publicly?

[Opinion Owner]

Not saying this in a rude or condescending way at all just genuinely curious though, what do you feel like it means? Because I wonder if you feel unsettled or uneasy about it.

[Asker]

i mean i know this guy likes me he shows it in other ways that makes it obvious. but when he saves them i either think it’s so he can go back and look at everything (bc he likes me) and/or so he remembers what the convo was. maybe both I don't know. i like that he saves all of it

[Opinion Owner]

Hmm, so if he likes you as much as you like him, why aren’t you together?

[Asker]

well I don't know if he likes me as much as i like him lolll and i haven’t told him how much i like him. trying to take it slow whatever it ends up being. just was curious about him saving stuff to the chat

[Opinion Owner]

Gotcha lol well I’m not sure what taking it slow means for you, but if it’s been more than 5 months then you may wanna shift things into gear. The thing with modern dating is sometimes women will settle and refer to a guy dragging his feet as taking it slow, when it’s not. If it’s been a while, then I promise he knows how he feels about you. I’m not sure what he does to show his feelings, but investing in you is a very clear action, it’s giving you a title if he likes you back, and you really shouldn’t settle for less. There’s just way too many men out there to connect with. You want him to like you more, and be just as interested in putting in the same work, otherwise you’re wasting your time. But anyway, good luck on your journey and hopefully it produces an outcome you can be happy with.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he's catching feelings

[Asker]

i meannnn that would be nice lol

[Iron_Man]

Maybe he likes you, but are you sure it’s friends with benefits

[Asker]

it doesn’t have a label but that’s what i call it..

[Avicenna]

He's very focused on it