What does a guy mean when he says this?

[happyfoetus]

What does a hookup guy mean when he says things like 'You are my girl. I will take good care of you', 'Lets not rush into sex', 'I look better than him (my boyfriend)' and 'Your body belongs to me and only me' ?

And gets upset when I kissed someone.

[Anonymous]

Based on the phrases you've described, it sounds like this person may be trying to manipulate or control you in some way. Saying things like "your body belongs to me and only me" and getting upset when you kissed someone else are signs of possessiveness and a lack of respect for your boundaries and autonomy.

While he may say things like "you are my girl" and "I will take good care of you," these statements can also be used as a way of exerting control over you and making you feel dependent on him. Additionally, saying "let's not rush into sex" can be a tactic to try and build trust and emotional intimacy before pressuring you into sexual activity.

It's important to prioritize your own emotional and physical safety in any relationship. If you're feeling uncomfortable or unsure about the dynamic between you and this person, it may be helpful to set clear boundaries and communicate your needs and expectations. If he continues to exhibit possessive or controlling behavior, it may be necessary to end the relationship and seek support from trusted friends, family, or a professional counselor.

[EricSummer]

This goes too far. I myself find it sexy to be possesive and to belong to each other, but I never do hookups, only long-term relationships. I think for these big words he is in the wrong game.

In addition "and only me" is rubbing it in so much that it would put me off, even though I understand the idea as such.

[Jazzy54]

“Your body belongs to me and only me.” Yikes, what a weirdo. I’d get away from him, if I were you. He sounds possessive.

[Gingerbread_GB]

Sounds pretty possessive to me. If you just want a casual fling, he might be too clingy for you.

[happyfoetus]

He is not clingy but is possessive

[spartan55]

Wow, you are gross. It means you picked a possessive moron to be your hookup. Ask your boyfriend 'what it means'. I'm sure he would be happy to help.

[PointTaken]

So you have a boyfriend and hook ups?

[Anonymous]

He think he owns you.