Should I be bothered?

Question

My boyfriend is reviewing for his mock exam
And just recently his exam had approached so he said he seriously need to review he will be busy so he won't chat me for days

I'm a bit sad but at the same time
I am trying to think that "ah this is for himself I shouldn't bother and this is something serious for him"

But my point here is a simple greetings of night and morning why can't he at least do that? Is he really that super busy...

But I trust him I'm doing my best to do other stuffs and be busy with work...
But sometimes it pains me.. i dont know what to do..

Anonymous · Answer

It's understandable to feel sad or disappointed when your partner is busy with other things and doesn't have as much time to chat or communicate with you. However, it's important to remember that your boyfriend's mock exam is likely a very important and stressful time for him, and he may need to focus all of his energy and attention on studying to do well.

It's possible that he's genuinely too busy to send a simple greeting of night and morning, but it's also possible that he's feeling overwhelmed and stressed and doesn't have the mental or emotional energy to communicate as much as usual.

It's important to communicate with your boyfriend and let him know how you're feeling, but it's also important to be understanding and supportive of his needs during this time. You could try sending him a supportive message or letting him know that you're proud of him for working hard, but also let him know that you miss talking to him and look forward to when things calm down.

You should trust your partner and give them space when they need it, but also communicate openly and honestly about your feelings and needs in the relationship.

Gingerbread_GB · Answer

Studying for an exam is not a excuse to not chat with you for just a little bit everyday. If it truly bothers you, you can ask him to block off maybe 10-15min every night to talk to you. He should be able to do that.

If you can deal with it, then just leave him alone and plan for some nice dates after he finishes his exam. relationship is about compromise a lot of times. Just because you know you can get something, doesn't mean you should push for it every time. Give him a break now and ask him to spend more time with you later.

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