I always make eye contact with him, and sometimes he would just look at me. But recently he stopped holding eye contact and will either avoid it or break it. But when he isn’t around some of his friends will stare or
keep looking at me. Did I misunderstand?
keep looking at me. Did I misunderstand?
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It's possible that your crush was initially interested in you, but then realized that he wasn't ready for a relationship for a variety of reasons. It's important to respect his decision and give him space to figure out what he wants.
As for the changes in his behavior towards you, it's difficult to say exactly what is going on without more information. It's possible that he is feeling awkward or uncomfortable around you after expressing interest and then backing off, which could explain why he's avoiding eye contact. It's also possible that he's simply busy or preoccupied with other things in his life.
If you're interested in pursuing a relationship with him, the best thing you can do is to communicate openly and honestly with him. Let him know how you're feeling and ask him how he's feeling, without putting pressure on him to make a decision or commit to anything. Respect his boundaries and give him the space he needs to figure things out, and remember that ultimately, you can't control how someone else feels or behaves. Focus on taking care of yourself and doing things that make you happy, whether or not things work out with this particular crush.
It’s not like he is avoiding me or moving away from like others do. But this helped me understand better
The thing is the avoiding eye contact stopped for a little when we talked to each other for the first time for a class discussion for about 2 days and I continued to break and avoid his eye contact then he went back to breaking eye contact.
It's possible that your crush may feel shy or unsure around you, which could explain his behavior of avoiding eye contact. It's also possible that he may be going through his own personal issues or struggles that are affecting his behavior.
If you're interested in pursuing a closer relationship with him, it may be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with him about your feelings and intentions. This can help to clarify any misunderstandings or miscommunications, and can give you both a better understanding of where the other person is coming from.
However, it's important to keep in mind that not everyone may share the same feelings or intentions, and it's important to respect his boundaries and decisions. It's also important to prioritize your own well-being and to make decisions that align with your own values and goals for the future.
Remember that relationships and interactions can be complex, and it's important to communicate openly and honestly in order to build a foundation of trust and understanding. By being clear and direct about your intentions, you can help to create a more positive and fulfilling relationship or interaction with others.
Either because he truly doesn't want a relationship right now and he's being upfront about that. Or because he's not sure about you and he's telling you you need to convince him that you're relationship material. Ball is in your court to discern which it is.
I didn’t ask him out though. I heard another girl asked about him to one of his female friends and she told him and that’s what he said. I asked about from one of his male friends I didn’t hear that. But it’s possible he changed his mind :/
Yep, you are making far too big a deal out of staring.