He simply wants his cake and eat it too. It's very clear that his relationship with this woman was not healthy at all and he's a problem. Because if she was the problem, he will not be with that person anymore. You can love a person, but there comes a point in time with sometimes you have no choice but to move on. At that point they will want time for themselves to be able to heal, and want to make sure that would they feel at this point is healthy. You're just going to be a rebound. And at the same time you got to question your sanity with this. Is this person is not a friend that you know for eons, you just met this person. You say you've been interested for like a year, there's something not right with you because it's something that you got within yourself as attracting that kind of person. He is not interested in a relationship, what he's interested in this easy sucks. That's all it is. Since he can't seem to get it from his ex, he see that you're the one that's still interested in him so obviously he's going to want something with you when he didn't from the beginning. You need to just call him out on it. and even if such did not happen between him and that person, it's very clear that it's definitely the rather he wants to go with. Because any self-respecting person wouldn't even treat you that way.
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Because he doesn't know what he wants. Half of his desires to move on and the other half still wants his ex back. Do not wait for him, it isn't fair to you. You will only feel regret later in your life for wasting your time waiting for someone who isn't even sure he wants you. If he really wanted you, he would pursue you.
I'm confused about your update. What do you mean that he won't leave her? I thought she was his ex already, or do you mean he still isn't over her?
In general, I'm feeling like I'm in the same spot right now. He probably wanted to move on and see what's out there (and then met you), but still wasn't completely over his ex yet. I don't feel like he is leading you on since he told you you could only be friends. Maybe there is more behind it, but I'm only going forward on what you wrote.
I wouldn't wait for him though. I'd try to move on as well, and if he feels ready and is still interested in you he'll contact you. If he isn't, you won't hear from him again probably.
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... And cause he's trying to get over his ex and maybe having trouble trying to (well I guess it depends on how long you guys have been together).
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