Why my boyfriend isn't interested in me?

[AtomicHoverCat]

My question is bit personal, I'm been in a relationship with my boyfriend for two years, I don't why he doesn't like me at all. He's bit old (he is 25 and I'm 19). I don't know if he's depressed or something I tried to talk to him about this and he got rude, some anger issues I've never seen in him before. All he do is go to work, gym and play videogames with bunch of other guys. One day he argued for hours and he kicked my cat even tried to push me. I don't know what he going through I just wanna help him, he's kinda possessed.

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Thank you so much everyone, it means a lot. I think I took a right decision but I don't know how its gonna make him feel I'm kinda scared too. everything was better in the beginning I've no idea what happened if its some mistakes from my side I'm still ready to fix it, I felt so helpless. Anyway thanks to you all!

[Anonymous]

oh, maybe he really is goin through something, he might be upset bout somethin that ya did and he didn't like it, try to talk to him gently or yk just try to make him understand ya, even after that if he ignores ya or dosent let ya know bout his prob, he is not good enough for you, cause in a relo trust and understanding should be there, if ya know what I mean

[AtomicHoverCat]

I think the same, and yes I tried talking to him gently but he's being rude

[Aurora1010]

Just leave him. He's getting aggressive with you, started dating you when you were a minor, doesn't care for your things and kicked your cat. Why are you with this asshole? You can find someone better. Don't put yourself in a harmful situation.

[AtomicHoverCat]

I'm asking myself the same, but I don't know I'm also trying to fix him

[Aurora1010]

You should put yourself first, if he continues then I suggest you not to waste your time. You can't help someone else while neglecting yourself.

[boggboss]

You in a situation thats clearly not good he kicked you cat due to a argument how long until he hits you before u wake up and understand even if u eat to help him being in a relationship with him is not safe for u

[AtomicHoverCat]

Thank you!

[Guy13]

Yikes…TO ME-it doesn’t sound like a stable environment?

[AtomicHoverCat]

Its not actually

[Christian65]

If he hurt you or your animal he doesn't really care for you or like you. It's better to end the relationship before things get ugly.

[AtomicHoverCat]

You're right, thank you!

[BigNerd45]

Maybe he's going through something, but it's messed up that he kicked your cat and pushed you. That stuff isn't ok.

[Wise4myage]

Since when is 25 old? 🙄

[AtomicHoverCat]

Yes. I know its weird

[Wise4myage]

Abuse is sign of something deeper, so I say its time to move on.