Is my boyfriend not attracted to me?

[Anonymous]

I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now
He mostly calls me "cute" , "adorable" , "pretty"

For example:
- you're such a cute and innocent girl
- you look cute when you're eating
- you're so adorable *kisses on forehead*

But he never calls me "hot" , "beautiful" , "sexy"
Is he not attracted to me?
Should I be upset that my boyfriend always call me "cute"?

Yes he is attracted

No it means he's not attracted

[4pple]

"Hot" and "sexy" are words used for a sexual attraction. What you both have is a mostly emotional attraction, he loves who you are, how you act, he primarily loves you as the person you are, and not just your body or sex, that's a good thing and necessary for a lasting relationship. The emotional attraction and bond is far more significant than the sexual one, and shows he genuinely loves you for who you are, rather than just seeing you as a sex object. So don't worry, everything is fine and he genuinely loves you!

[Marethyu]

Don't worry, I treat my girlfriend the same way but am hella attracted to her :P
You know.. First of all "hot" and "sexy" is usually used in a sexual manner.
That out of the way, my girlfriend just completely fulfills the definition of "cute" and guess what.. I'm attracted to cute girls.
They make me feel like I need to protect them and I like that thought in a relationship.
That typical image of "Hourglass figure, big boobs, etc" which one would call "hot" is simply not my type.

[Dasani36]

I've had this with a few chicks, some really didn't like being called cute, they wanted hot, beautiful, sexy. Were definitely attracted to you, it could be in your mannerisms, your bubbly personality, your clothes, your small size, voice, or just a youthful cute face that we'd saying cute or adorable. I loved kissing them on the forehead, just another way of us showing affection and love for you. And for men cuteness-represents-youth which represents fertility and health as well as long hair. I will say though I started saying those things if it really bothered her, just a tiny thing to do for your girl. If he's unacttracted look for a lot less affection, plenty of rejection of your advances, lots of porn... more than regular if you know his usual amount. Albeit a lower sex drive could be stress related. All in all nothing to worry about if he is calling you cute, adorable ✌

[Anonymous]

Guys like to classify these words and use it accordingly, at least I do. For me sexy and hot are for girls with nice bodies and posture and they know they are so they flaunt it. Beautiful is for the whole package, and she's a pure soul. Cute and adorable for girls with beautiful face and smile but their bodies are alright like nothing special, not their best feature. Of course the use of words might differ between a man and another

[Asker]

Ok so that means he's not physically attracted to me?

[Opinion Owner]

Its hard to tell, as like I said, It differs. I don't know try dressing and subtly dressing sexy around him see what he says.

[Opinion Owner]

Subtly acting all*

[Asker]

I do and he would say "your tits are hanging out, everyone can see it" or "that dress is short"

[AllThatSweetJazz]

Yes, he’s attracted to you. Those are the things guys like. You just don’t understand because you like different things in guys and use different words to describe it. Cute is better than “hot” most of the time. You just have to deal with it and understand that “cute” is what guys like.

[ManFrom1982]

Consider that he might actually be trying to be respectful as well. There's plenty of possibility that he's so attracted to you that he wants to do wonderfully depraved things with you... But keeps that a bit to himself out of concern you might find that rather objectionable 😂

[InTimoreDei]

Why do you think not being called "hot" is equated with non-attraction? Out of respect I don't call a significant other "hot" because it sounds like something you'd say if you were some typical guy on an instagram model's page. I prefer to express my love in other ways because I am a gentleman.

[mandi308]

hot and sexy aren’t terms i’ve every been called, which is fine. not really the vibe i put out. i’d rather be beautiful or pretty anyway.

[ManFrom1982]

@mandi308 so clearly I may have stalked some of your opinions too (love the sense of humor btw!), but I have to argue with this one... No matter what vibe you're trying to put out.

[mandi308]

https://goo.gl/images/8EwfZS

[ManFrom1982]

Lol then that makes us even 😉 (wp on the gif choice).

[charlzinut]

Hot and cute are two different things ! My boyfriend calls me cute all the time but he is attracted to “cute”

[skateranon123]

If he is with you he is attracted to you. I wouldn't be with a girl I didn't find sexually attractive. Some guys don't call girls hit because it sounds trashy.

[blackandmint]

Be happy that he does call you nice names! Some guys don’t even say these things to their girlfriend.

Don’t worry, he’s attracted to you but probably isn’t the kind of guy who’d say these other words.

[boggboss]

Yes he is attracted to you guys don't see it the same as women for you to be cute u are beautiful in there eyes

[Asker]

Cute is different to beautiful and hot though?

[boggboss]

No for most guys cute is beautiful yes it's differnt from hot but it's vary slightly varies as people put differnt meanings on the words

[MzNutMeg]

I’d say yes he’s attracted to you and cares about you.. if you want to know why he doesn’t say those particular words to you simply ask him.

[jadeepeter]

He is attracted to you, he's just respectful. He probably doesn't know that you're okay with him calling you hot, sexy, etc.

[Charlie432]

he's being respectful, personally I only use hot when talking to my buddies about a one nighter but when I was in a relationship I hardly used hot or similar words out of respect.

[ImSoSquishy]

well, if you're not and don't look "hot" , "beautiful" , "sexy", then you will never be "hot" , "beautiful" , "sexy"

[anshul177]

That's why I said no to get in relationship you ladies are such weird if he won't find you hot why would he call you hot like he found you cute then he call you cute are you not happy that he calling you cute at least he calling you something

[rpgeek]

You probably are just cute which believe me is a very very good thing. Guys love cute.

[Shogun48]

I don't like the word "hot". Beautiful is a much more powerful word.

[ShayofPink]

My boyfriend's the same, on rare occasions he calls me sexy, but usually he always calls me cute, but that doesn't mean he isn't attracted, he just finds you cute

[Pegasus3007]

He thinks that you are innocent and cares for you.
He doesn't want to hurt you.

[raxy292]

Jesus Christ! How the hell did you get a boyfriend? Lol