How come I can’t move on from someone who says they own me or wants to: he believes that he can hangout with whoever and do whatever (except for sleep with them) and I should be okay with it. He believes it’s fair that I have all these rules like curfew, no drinking or being friends with single people, can’t wear certain clothes without him around (like crop tops or bathing suits) I’m not allowed social media and to hangout with guys one on one but he can do these things he said a friend from years ago is visiting him and he is gonna have her over and I said I’m so uncomfortable with that because he had just slept with someone 2 weeks ago after we broke up and I said it was too soon he says he won’t sleep with her but I hate the idea and I said if he hangouts with her at his place and not a coffee shop I won’t wanna talk and he’s totally fine with losing me because if it’s that easy to give up on him how can he trust me to stay when something gets actually hard like what? And I said well then I get to hangout with my guy friends and he said watch what happens if I do he won’t be playing any games with me and he’ll be done if I do it - he believes he owns me and says to trust him because of how well he takes care of his house and car he literally thinks he owns me he’s said it what do I do what’s wrong with me
That is abusive behavior, get out now. Please. I don't care how attractive, or wealthy he is, or how often he says he "loves" you. This is abusive and controlling. Expect once you are cut off from friends for he cycle of beatings / apologies to begin.
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Just dump this guy, will you! ?
He is an asshole and will be your whole time with him.
Believe me, my wife's friend is going through something like that and they've had to intervene and imploring her to get a restraining order.
Men like this = bad.
Men like this = very unhappy women.
leave him if you want. If it upsets you then break up with him.
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You sound pretty owned already.. I had a few chicks on lock when I was younger. They wised up and rolled out after a grip. So will you.
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U have no self respect and clearly don't mind being treated like a Ave to keep him happy
"Sorry, I won't be doing that"
If you stay he will eventually kill you.
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