Men, how do you act when you’re in love with that special woman?

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Proair14 · Accepted Answer

I act a lot nicer and way more polite then I would any other person

Ptrmbrs88 · Accepted Answer

I try to avoid her as much as possible.

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

If the stakes are high, and I'm genuinely afraid of losing her? Very cautious. I treat her like a princess. But if I have doubts still, I walk on eggshells. If someone I'm more comfortable with, I ease up a little. But I tend to be much more patient and forgiving. And if she goes down a bad path, I'm more likely to beg her to understand why I don't trust the path, rather than be immediately judgmental. "You big dummy" is for antagonists, not for lovers.

And for me to call her a Tide zombie, her act of betrayal would have to be pretty epic. I often reserve that for the lowest of the low and dumbest of the dumb.

I guess the biggest measure of love, is how much I perk up at the chance to see or hear from her again if separated for a time. Especially if I know I gain nothing in the form of money, sex, etc., but don't care, because it's all about knowing she's doing well. And I can be happy for her, even as her kid with another man is running loose around her feet. And I'm too happy for her happiness to care that I got shafted. But I still let her have what she has, and look for other fulfillments elsewhere. But would help her family out with anything as if they were extended family of my own. Big Uncle has to help.

That's love. You fascinate me too, Pinay, but I worry a lot of it is lust, since you have the face and personality that knows what buttons to push. I'd have to know you better to move beyond that, though I do desire to respect your privacy.

With Wilgrace, I still offer her helpful insights or kernels of wisdom on Instagram whenever I can. But with the urge to look out for her, even though she's shown little to no interest in ever getting back with me, it might be that in my subconscious, she's become just another little sister to defend.

I'm protective to a fault.

Leapfrog00 · Answer

I'm usually not myself. I usually act differently around the girl than I do with other people. I'll also start singing to myself and not care who's around. I'll keep checking my phone to see if she called or texted me.

If I'm on the phone and I have to write down an appointment time or something, I'll keep writing her name and draw little hearts. (I can't believe I admitted that!). When I'm with her, when she's not looking, I'll stare at her and try to capture an image of her in my head for later, when she's not around.

Sometimes I even forget things when I'm thinking of her. Oh, how I miss being in love *Sighs*

OfMiceandMen · Answer

I try to let her know how I feel whenever we are together, whether that is verbally, through touch, or both.

I may plan things that bring us closer together, like a picnic, a special day doing things she enjoys, etc.

I may send her a homemade card and apply my goofy sense of humor to it, in hopes of making her laugh/smile.

MementoMori777 · Answer

Don't make me cringe now, very humorous and in a way somewhat clingy, cause when I fall for someone I'm the complete opposite of being cold I guess it's the best way I can say it, somewhat blinded by it because even tho I'm hard to give my trust to someone, when I do, I give all of it so if someone was to backstabbing me or betray me with the complete element of surprise, unfortunately that's the secret.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

They act like you are the goddess and they are the mortals, serving the high feminine energy of yours.

Your any wish, even the ones you have never said, are going to come true.

You feel like he would die for you and he would.

It’s the best feeling in the world, you indeed feel like a queen and the sexiest woman in the world. He devotes all of him to you.

Every woman should experience being that girl to a man.

MysticDevice · Answer

All sense of coordination and intelligence goes right out the window and I turn into a studdering fool. Basically.

TooHot2Care · Answer

Closest I’ve ever gotten: she made me laugh like an actual hyena.  Whoever said women aren’t funny was a dirty liar.  Classic Tate W, amirite ladies?

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

I get a boner. I guess behaviorwise with that special woman I seek for her to have physical contact with my boner.

DaddyDiablo · Answer

I act just the same as I do when I'm with or without anyone I am with ex friends and so forth. Only time I act different is when I'm with my family but it's cus I lived a life they're not happy with

Reorx · Answer

I let them find someone else. I'll sabotage things even though that's the last thing I want.

motownplayer2000 · Answer

Act? Lol, normal. I use to go crazy over women when I was younger. Then I grew up and realized women are all basically the same. Nothing to be concerned about. If you get rejected 50 times, there are 500 more women and 5000 more chances to get pussy or “find love.” Abstract concept since relationships are give and take. It’s more a business than anything else.

digitalguy01 · Answer

The fellow will act normal according to him. Lol but those who are around him and know him from ages will consider him as a mad man. He will act weird as per them.

This is what I have seen and experienced 😂

lightbulb27 · Answer

Kinda like this... we did this a bit this morning, although I think she won... for now.

Alitheia · Answer

I make sure she's well taken care of and all her needs are met. Even if she asks me not to I spoil her of my own accord because she deserves it. I make sure she worries about nothing and is happy all the time

Guardian45 · Answer

Ummm. Attentive, romantic, flirty. I'm obsessed with holding hands. (Touch is my Love Language).

Iron_Man · Answer

I act very happy, and treat her like royalty

Sparkie460 · Answer

I don't put on an act. I'm respectful, compassionate, loving and honest

ChiTown33 · Answer

Cautious. Because it's most likely one sided and I've been duped into believing otherwise.

dragoblack · Answer

Show high interest in them and wanting to get to know them better

EaterPeter · Answer

Week in knee, puppy eyed, lost, smitten

Fuentes · Answer

I don't fall in love

soe11 · Answer

Accordingly

Inquisitive98 · Answer

Like O found a treasure

Degenerate · Answer

I've never been inlove

Cheerfull009 · Answer

I will keep her as princess

exitseven · Answer

Pretty goofy.

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