I've gotten that many times... that I make men feel vulnerable.
Not in any kind of a negative way, I would hope, but can you let me know what does that concept mean to you? What do you see as being vulnerable as a man?
Thank you!
So here’s truthful joke.
Women hide their body to not be hurt by men
Men hide their feelings to not be hurt by women.
Women wear clothes of the body and men wear clothes for the soul.
That said when you really get close with someone the clothes come of and at the beginning nobody is comfortable.
Women aren’t really judged poorly for crying or showing weakness but men are
That said women are judged on their body more then men and thus both have something to cover up.
Being vulnerable for me means that I have to be open about certain emotions and how I feel about certain conflicts to a degree. I rarely cry and those that see it are those I literally trust with my life or won't judge me as an lesser. My girl has never seen me cry and I intend to keep it that way.
The more vulnerable a man is with a woman, the more ammo she has to use against him and the less attractive he becomes in her eyes. I refuse to let my woman see me as weak or vulnerable on a frequent basis.
It comes down to double standards that society has, but I have lived and been on the receiving end of women who have seen my vulnerability and used it against me which led to lost friendships and relationships with then. The only woman in my life that I will be vulnerable with 100% is my mother. No other woman will have that privilege again.
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Emotionally opening up to someone is scary, especially if you have experience with people betraying that openness.
When I feel a very close connection with her and are chemistry is amazing , she takes my breathe away when I feel like I can trust her with anything I say , her beauty and the way she presents herself as a person , her caring personality , if she has a huge heart, that makes me melt inside , The way she touches me and looks at me makes me feel lost in a good way , like I have no other care in the world that I can trust her with anything I say and I know she has my back , I can tell her things I usually don’t talk about to others cuz I know she loves me and I feel she isn’t going anywhere Having that connection with someone is hard to come by , you should cherish that if you feel the same way as they do
Typically guys who say this are not actually confident. So what insecurity they hide from others, they will tell you out of trust.
Which in my honest opinion, is an incredibly stupid thing to do. They're trusting that you aren't going to judge them.
Well men have to keep our guard up at all times. If we ever show weakness this world will destroy us and show no mercy. In order for us to feel attraction we must lower our guard. This is the only instance where it might not result in us getting annihilated by the cruelty of reality, but even here it's most likely going to result in us taking damage.
It's not that you make us "feel"vulnerable. Wer become vulnerable by giving you the opportunity to hurt us pretty badly. It's not just a feeling. It's real.
At the moment she gets me to open myself to her, tell her things I'd normally keep to myself. That's exposing me and taking the risk of her using it against me.
We guys feel vulnerable because we give ourselves, totally, to her, knowing that at any time, she can reject us. But that's what makes a relationship a good relationship.
If that happens it means I trust you. You make yourself vulnerable whenever you put your ttust in someone.
Judging by your picture, I'm pretty sure you would melt any man.
They trust you with their actual thoughts abd feelings about their issues in life.
No man should ever be authentically vulnerable with a woman.
She builds trust. There is NO other way.
Well she could make me jealous
