Guys, do you tend to feel like you have to be delicate with women’s feelings?

[desperatelyhungry]

This girl I watch on YouTube and her boyfriend was doing a video, asking my boyfriend questions we wanna know about guys, and he mentioned feeling like he has to be delicate about her feelings cause she can sometimes be sensitive. She got a little
Offended and he specified , it’s not just her, exes he’s had in the past or even just female family members , tend to be more offended/ easily upset over things men in his life normally wouldn’t. What do you think? And is it just women you're intimate with that you pay attention to their emotions, or just women you encounter in general?

[Anonymous]

I would say in general guys learn to care about stuff they don't even register as important as extensions of caring for various girls in their lives.

It's super common for guys to boggle over what matters to girls; Though the guy who loves her will figure it out because they need to know her down to her soul (of course, this only applys to guys who aren't just pyscopahtic horn dogs).

It is VERY easy to offend any woman for a guy. Also add to that, there are some women who are beyond senstive and always trying to read shit into every little thing a guy utters. Usually what they read in will reflect their views of the guys vs what the guy meant, but a guy knowing that is true can save themselves a day of hell by seeing thats happening and pussyfooting around when the girls about. Usually its done to avoid having a terrible day of hassle and also to not arm such a girl with some narrative she gossips to the other girls, spinning a pitch about how the guy is this or that based on some minor comment taken out of proportion.

Now, in fairness, there's some of these types of people in both genders, its just more prevelent in the females as far as I have witnessed.

So my answer is, its a very sensible thing for a guy to be very careful around womens feelings, unless they want a difficult life.

That all said, guys tend to keep in touch with the girls who are more easy going or at least if not easy going they actually get why their sensitive and feel its respectable and reasonable to consider those areas (as all people have sensitive spots).

[Chazmatazz269]

Not anymore. It’s natural for men to want to “protect” women, so most of us will feel a certain way even if we behave very differently. It’s also natural for the power dynamic in relationships to be challenged and affirmed. Most people don’t work any harder than they have to at any given thing. So women will naturally take advantage by manipulating men with their “feelings”, real or perceived. Men who can’t or won’t come out on top of those power struggles more often than not have to decide if they value their partner’s feelings over their own.
Knowing that women can’t love men they don’t respect, i decided long ago to not be that wishy washy wimp. It’s okay to coddle children. But women aren’t children. There is no benefit to coddling them. If a woman behaves like a child when she’s treated like an adult, that’s a major red flag.

[Finchie40]

For the most part yes , because
Most women are very emotional compared to men , most women show their emotions more than guys’ tend to do , also men have testosterone in them and women have hormones , Women are considered weak to a man , She is mainly drawn to his masculine energy that she doesn’t possess in herself , most women want to feel safe and protected by her man that’s what she is drawn to , she wants a guy that she can look up to not look down to

[Rangers]

To a certain extent, yes. Although I'm not a snappy person when it comes to talking to people.

At least people I care about, but that list is quite small. If someone's stupidity starts getting on my nerves, that's when I may make snappish remarks and let them know exactly why they're an idiot

[Anonymous]

Oh fuck yes lol sorry did I upset you. But not serious w women in general you have to be delicate because pretty much everything a man does or says upsets them. They want honesty but when you’re honest they don’t like it. This isn’t just a women were intimate w either. Women always say men should just be honest, be upfront w what we want. But we can’t. Because if we were a majority of women wouldn’t want a damn thing to do w men.

[Opinion Owner]

The girl in that video just proved his point. She got offended.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Not a chance! I've never been delicate with a woman's feelings since I was in my teens. My goodness, most of the women I have dated would laugh in my face if I even tried!

[Sargentcaptain]

Just the other day a girl was distraught her boyfriend told her she was an 8/10. Lesson is, treat women like children.

[Dela_99]

Ughhh she is right if your man don’t see you as the baddest he has no business dating you

[Sargentcaptain]

No, you aren't the prettiest, smartest, most perfect woman ever to walk the Earth. Your SO is supposed to love you, not lie to you. Pretending you are the most attractive creature ever is just childish.
You can't honestly say that there aren't men out there you consider to be physically better than your boyfriend. And that's fine. You're, presumably, still very much attracted to him, and he shouldn't cry like a baby because of that.

[Dela_99]

And you don’t have to be the prettiest, smartest or most perfect person lmao ur man has to see you as that , and u said it yourself there are better more attractive and smarter men but it doesn’t matter because i see my man as the top man and to me he is the smartest and most handsome and i would affirm that to him, nobody in a relationship wants to hear that there are better people we know that and we know there are always better people, not the point

[Sargentcaptain]

> there are better more attractive and smarter men but it doesn’t matter

> to me he is the smartest and most handsome

> would affirm that to him

Are you lying to him or to yourself here? Genuine question, why do you feel the need to lie when you logically understand the truth of the situation.

> nobody in a relationship wants to hear that there are better people

Unless you're mentally 13, you want to hear the truth. Adult relationships are based on reality.

[Dela_99]

Bruh its not like he doesn’t know the truth and I don’t? Its emotional and has nothing to do with logic its me affirming that regardless of reality that’s how i see him, its not a professional relationship it’s literally a relationship being cutesy and saying nice things is part of it nobody cares about being logical we know the truth

[bobby_bush_eater]

Yes. That said they all need to hear harsh things at times. How you speak to them in those moments is absolutely crucial versus with a guy for the most part I can just say it plainly.

[genericname85]

actually not really. cause if she can't handle it, she's free to leave and not be part of my life xD

[justarandomperson_55]

If I'm close to someone, I will surely be delicate with their feelings and if I'm not, I won't think that much but surely will always be a gentleman not depending on the others gender.

[ProbablyClueless]

I'd say that I'm a bit more delicate with women's feelings in general.

[jahaims]

I don't waste time on sensitive people. Sensitive is just a nice way to say someone is too stupid to process emotions in a healthy way.

[slatyb]

I'm careful with everyone's feelings.

[DrPepper12]

As the lawyers say, it depends.

[Nifrayu]

No. I've never felt this way.

[Anonymous]

Yes of course.

[sirderpsalot123]

Yeah

[Anonymous]

Nope.