It's your life and I think you are the best person to decide what is best for it, regardless of what others will think or judge about your decisions. You come first and it's really unfortunate that you have to tell a rape victim no, but it's probably the best for you both because you're not in a good mental position to be in that kind of relationship. All you can do is be nice and respectful about it so you don't feel as bad. Also it seems to me that you're questioning your sexuality and maybe you need to explore that more in therapy. I also feel that there may be more trauma that you've been through and that being with a rape victim can be more of a trigger for you. So it seems like you're looking to be with someone you feel more safe and comfortable so you can trust people again.
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I think this is a really bad reason to reject someone, anyone who has been raped has been through enough in thier life time. I would imagine it to be extremely hard for them to finally feel comfortable in thier own skin to date. To then have someone like yourself to turn around and reject them because of something completely out of thier control. Virginity is such a tiny thing, I don't think it should control who you date and who you don't. Personally I think it's extremely.
Let me ask you a question, if you were to meet the girl of your dreams. She has everything you could ever want, but you later find out that she was sexually abused. Would you end the relationship?
Absolutely rubbish.. She didn't done that by her happiness
"In my past, sex was introduced to me at too young and the wrong way.". What do you mean? Could you be more specific?
It's stupid, but it's still his choice. If he insists on only dating virgins he's going to be single a long time.
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If all you care about is that she hasn't slept with anyone other than you, then yes you are a horrible person.
Nope! I’m a virgin too and rejected non virgin guys.
No it's damaged product unfortunately mentally and physically. Maybe when she in her 30s to 40s sure but early stage no.
She either gonna be a recluse or hyper sexualIts not wrong.
(But why u post such pics?)YES!!
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