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Is it wrong for a guy to reject a r@pe victim because she's not a virgin?

Is it wrong for a guy to reject a r@pe victim because she's not a virgin?
I'm a virgin who only wants to date other virgins. Its just that I feel that I would be truly happy that way, I have mental issues of my own and can't bear the thought of committing my life to someone who slept with another person other than me, even if it wasn't consensual. Being raped is something awful that I wouldn't wish upon anyone, but I tend to feel like a piece of shit for not willing to date a victim because of something she had no control over. I also know that her being a victim doesn't automatically make her entitled to me, but I still feel like a piece of shit. I fell deep down inside that if I do end up spending my life with someone who's not a virgin even if it was due to rape, I would live my life with someone I'm not truly happy with. Am I a piece of shit? Am I obligated to give myself out despite my personal standards?
it IS wrong
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3 mo
I forgot to mention that I talked to a therapist about this, and she said it would be best to only date virgins. I suffer from mental illness that has effected my sexuality. In my past, sex was introduced to me at too young and the wrong way. Dating a non virgin would put me in a mental state that I can't afford to be in. I do sympathize with victims of sexual abuse and have donated to charities who offer professional help to victims of sexual abuse and assault.
Is it wrong for a guy to reject a r@pe victim because she's not a virgin?
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