Why do guys get angry or even insult me when I (17F) don't want to give them my phone number?

[Anonymous]

[razelove]

Pressure to get in your pants, feeling embarrassed because they couldn't close the distance and it does take a little bravery to approach women at that age (for young men).
It's probably a major reason why a lot of girls your age go for older guys though it can be creepy. At least they won't call you a bitch for being shot down.
Otherwise you got me, I barely remember anything about those days except some memories from the Marines.

[RavVid]

I think that is very uncool of them and uncalled for. You are rejecting them and rejection hurts of course.

Maybe they think every girl your age and above is VERY sexually active. There is an old joke - sluts do it with everyone but bitches do it with everyone except for you. Maybe they are taking it that way.

You can always say your (made up) boyfriend wouldn't approve if you want to slide out of it gracefully.

[Rosexøxø]

They showed you a perfect example

100% as only this:

they

don’t

know

how

to

handle

rejection

period. 🙌💯😐🤝💞

[Rosexøxø]

Just don’t sweat it and move on. That’s just a sign of immaturity. Eventually (HOPEFULLY lol) they will get it, and learn to treat people right, regardless.

[dreamer123912]

yes this

[SeriouslyFunny00]

Sweetie, you did a good job protecting yourself from those kind of boys. 🙌

[TooHot2Care]

Seriously funny…? I’ll be the judge of that….. I got my eye on you…..

Nah srsly, I took my eyeball out with the intention of throwing it at you, this was a bad idea.

[FilmGuy93]

They're frustrated and taking it out on you.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

Thats easy, I think if you reflect a bit on it you might find it out yourself.

Guys also have to learn to cope with frustration, its part of maturing. Not everyone manages to get it right though. So if some guys get rejected they let their frustration out and insult you. Sometimes its also a sign of low self esteem and rejection makes them feel like they're personally attacked and go into defense mode

[strateguy632]

those guys are trying to pressure and manipulation, more reason not to give them your phone number. offer email where you can block em and not hear ringing.

[Gent207-2]

You dodged a bullet and should consider yourself lucky.

[LiamJHayden]

Some guys don't deal with rejection well. This is why a lot of girls end up saying, "I have a boyfriend." when they don't or give a wrong number. Those fibs avoid a lot of drama.

[AMS700CX4u2]

You don't ask for phone numbers, but we are happy when they are given.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

That’s just the average teenage boy or maybe all boys either way it’s nothing to get snippy about. I have a saying, “noobs date, Giga Chads wait”.

[riverrat3]

They think you should just give it, it insulted them. Hold your ground

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Same reason why girls get angry or even insult guys when they're rejected or even asked out.

[TooHot2Care]

Stop making this about you…

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Oh she is asking so i answered and if you think about it, it still make sense so what's the problem?

[TooHot2Care]

Bruised ego. You didn’t do anything wrong.

[Anonymous]

It depends. What are you doing?

[In_Trance]

It's a ego thing