Everytime my boyfriend is having a bad day , of whatever kind, he doesn't want to talk to me
He is like this always and Im tired of it
Even tho i told him when he is angry he better stop using phone because he tells lots of mean and hurtful things to me
Why can't he control his emotions? why all the negative stuff that happens in his life affects me?
His friend or his family or job problems
I give him space but its not normal he is so angry and depressed nearly every day
I dont understand what is happening to him
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As a source of more reasonable feedback, it sounds like he is feeling like he has no support and doesn't want to burden you.
Yes, he has lower emotional skills here so maybe lead him into a safe space if he will let you. Some men are taught its not safe to do this because it is later used against them, so they try to be big and tough.
Be gentle, have no expectations, and give him space... see what response you get.
U got with a man that has little control over his emotions then act suprised as to why he is not acting normal?
I didn't expect this be This bad
What did u expect sorry
Him being normal or at least control himself
girlfriend are like dustbins we guys either dump cum or anger...