Should I approach him or give up?

[Victoria7869]

This guy I like sometimes makes me feel like he likes me he’s always also looking when I’m not looking and stuff he always says hi and makes sure to add my name after saying hi he also twice asked me where a manager was mind u he can ask other people around me or go to the office etc but I don't know he doesn’t really try to start a conversation with me just looks and asks where someone is that’s about it I went to the deli to grab a broom I didn’t see it he goes broom? I’m like yea and he would go get it for me this is like the 2nd time he’s helped me out but doesn’t say much I don't know do I give up or what do I do he seems too quiet and shy at times but he’s open with the guys he works with

[MementoMori777]

Seems like the guy is trying and tbh I don't think you should give up on him unless he rubs you off wrong somehow, even tho it's a little bit of effort, it's still effort and so early into something that bit of effort is good, my advice would be start putting in some as well if you are interested, if you already are then it's all going down a good path, keep it up 👍

[Victoria7869]

Thank you ☺️ u think he’s just shy or something because he says hi Victoria doesn’t even make eye contact sometimes is it cuz he’s nervous not interested

[MementoMori777]

If he wasn't interested he wouldn't be speaking to you, doing things for you or even look at you, he sounds shy, this is from someone that's been shy growing up so, just staring give it away that he has an interest in you.

[Victoria7869]

You’re very sweet and helpful thank you so much 💕💕💕💕

[MementoMori777]

No problem Victoria, just one more thing, always keep the guard up to a certain point, there's no shame in being ready or cautious in the dating game, not too high, not too low, just enough to not to be moving blindly, my best wishes on your situation 💯🙏

[Victoria7869]

It’s just he only ever says hi to me like im the only girl/cashier he says hi too that’s why I was confused and ur so right I def need to do that I really really appreciate u thank u very much 💕💕💕☺️☺️☺️☺️

[MementoMori777]

He seems like he's already stepping out of his comfort zone by putting that bit of effort, as long you don't call him out on it I would assume his effort should grow but you should match the effort so he doesn't think you aren't interested, he puts enough effort and he gets no different results he would assume you aren't interested and he will stop

[Victoria7869]

Nooo I hope not it’s just I’m really quiet and shy around him like if he looks at me I look away just because I get so shy my heart sinks I say hi always when he says hi I just hope he doesn’t take my quietness the wrong way but I’ll def try to talk to him more I just don’t wanna be annoying

[Victoria7869]

Like the other day I’m taking out carts and he sees me and goes hey Victoria have u seen Bob (our manager) and before I could even finish giving him an answer he was standing like next to me which I was so confused why he would do that

[MementoMori777]

You seem like the type to overthink a lot, I think he was just standing next to you lol

But if you are shy it would make sense why he was confident enough to speak to you because if he is shy as well then a shy girl is his best option, (shy dude thoughts) next time he speaks to you, answer like you would answer to anyone randomly, you are thinking too much about it I'm sure

[Victoria7869]

You’re right thank you ☺️ the standing thing was just because he’s never done that before 😭

[Massageman]

I wish I had a nickel very time I wanted to say something to a gal but was shy/ afraid of rejection/ etc. Start a conversation. If the shyness is a trait that you can't tolerate in a guy, then look elsewhere.

[spartan55]

Sounds like you've done nothing.

[Victoria7869]

Wym what am I supposed to do

[spartan55]

Omg, maybe let him know you are interested?

[Victoria7869]

😭😭ur right but like I try to I just don’t wanna directly say it and get rejected I’m scared

[spartan55]

What do you mean you try to?

[Victoria7869]

Like I’m more nice to him than anyone else

[spartan55]

So what if you get rejected. Guys deal with it WAY more.

[Victoria7869]

You’re right I’ll just tell him

[Victoria7869]

I don't know how to say it tho

[spartan55]

"More nice to him" lol... sorry that's funny.

[Victoria7869]

🤣😭listen I try ok lmao I just don’t know what to say or how to show it I’m very quiet and shy and catching him look at me often doesn’t help I just don’t wanna say something to him and he gets annoyed at me

[spartan55]

Are you really 23?

[spartan55]

Have you ever had a boyfriend?

[Victoria7869]

I’m 20 and I’ve had a boyfriend it’s just they weren’t shy so they approached me

[spartan55]

Why lie about your age?

[Victoria7869]

Just stfu damn hella nosy