The first two dates went well and he usually initiates the text messages. It has already been two weeks since the last date. If he is not interested, why is he still texting me? Is he perhaps unsure of my interest?
If he does not ask you out, then you can take it that he is not interested or that he does not want to go through the trouble to organize anything.
That would be indicative that he is rather the lazy type of person and that you will have a hard time if you get into a relationship with him to do anything that requires organizing. He is the kind of person that wants to be pampered but does not want to go through the hassle to do something himself. That would be a bad omen in any relation and I would not pursue such a person.
It also indicates that he is not motivated to go out with you and that he is more the homely kind of person. It is up to you to decide if you want to have anything to do with that man.
Men should always be dominant in the relationship so if he does not ask you out then he is not ready for a relationship or for you. If you really like him. Test him. Ask him, "I am going to be busy with something... you can call me after this date if you want to meet up or something." Give him only one last chance.
If he has been the one to show interest before then you should now.
It's one thing for a woman to expect some chasing and initiating and another to expect him to read your mind. Is he open about showing his interest? Are you? "Two to tango" you know.
If you don't reciprocate and show interest or at least show that you are willing to make some effort.. do you think he sees you as a teamplayer?
In my opinion, mature men want women to be teamplayers. In order to have a committed relationship.
It's way more likely that he is clueless than uninterested. He probably thinks that you'll ask him out again. If you want him to ask you out, you should directly say it.
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You should just outright ask him the same way you asked us. The fact that it indicates you don't have time for games means you aren't interested in playing them, and that's a huge turn on.
Sure you should if you enjoy each other's company. Ask him, he's accepting so obviously he's having a good time, but let him pay.
You idiot, you’ve trained him to wait for you to ask him out!
Never wait on a guy. You can easily find someone else.
Two weeks isn’t that long. Men have to work, you know.
What makes you think the 1st two dates went well.
Take the initiative us guys like being pursued and asked out
No. Just run.
If you have to ask here now, you’ll always be asking.
Don’t ask him out again
Just ask him out again.
Yes, be bold and ask him out again.
Beta male
yes he shy?
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