This guy and I have been texting each other (everyday or every other day) for more than a month now, but he hasn't asked me out yet. I wonder if I should ask him out or not. I first heard about him from a mutual friend, who said to me "This guy friend recently broke up with a girlfriend and is single now. I wanna introduce him to you (me)". We ended up meeting at one of the social gatherings before the mutual friend match-made us. As we have some commonalities including work, school, interests, etc. I asked him to lunch. We also randomly ran into each other at another gathering, and we had coffee afterwards. At that time (4 months ago), I was more interested in another guy so I didn't put much effort into being closer to him although I was interested in him. He didn't make an effort either, but I sensed his interest in me. A month ago, we happened to travel to the same city (not together) and decided to do something fun together there. I made a plan and we had a lot of fun. Since then, we've been texting each other. He said a few ideas to get together again after the holiday season, but he hasn't made plans yet even after both of us are back in town. I also told him what I like/enjoy doing, but he hasn't asked me out.. I wonder if I should make a move or if he is seeing another woman.
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Guys, this guy and I have been texting each other for more than a month but he hasn't asked me out. Should I ask him out?
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