Does a guy hearting your sexy gym selfie mean anything or can that be friendly?

[kareenakapur]

he hearted it on insta. could just not say anything. He friendzoned me by the way but knows I like him. pretty sure he likes me too but has a girl rn so can't do anything. Does hearting mean anything or just friendly gesture.

[OfMiceandMen]

Kind of a tough one as it could mean one of two things:

1) He finds you attractive and wants to take it further.

2) He thinks your workouts are paying off and wants to give you positive feedback/reinforcement. Like - looking good, but strictly in a plutonic sort of way.

Going to need more to go on.

[kareenakapur]

we used to sexually flirt with each other and then he said he has feelings for someone else (I stalked enough to find he may have an on off girlfriend) and that it's not fair to me and he's sorry he led me on but he wants to be my friend. i told him I can't be his friend and yeah I went kinda mean in the middle he got upset i didn't want to give him space so he blocked me on message (I'm unblocked now but we dont text there) but now texts on snap long story but now he hearting my insta. like why u give me mixed signal. like just watch it and move on : (. is he thinking he's being platonic or still trying to hold on to me.

[OfMiceandMen]

The fact that he's all over the map would be enough for me to just put him in the "friendzone", and that's just trying to be nice. Why waste time and effort when he can't be honest about how he feels with this other person. He would likely just do the same to you, even if you took it further with him.

[kareenakapur]

Thats true i should friendzone him

[MementoMori777]

Friendly gesture, but either ways if he's taken I don't know what you are hoping for, you just can't land someone worth your time huh 😂

[kareenakapur]

same guy lol still stuck on him

[MementoMori777]

Ooh I see, well best of luck

[kareenakapur]

lol just trying to get his attention and he hearted it got excited but for nothing Ig sad

[MementoMori777]

Well hopefully one of these times he pays attention to you lol

[kareenakapur]

lol thank you for feeding my delusions I love you

[MementoMori777]

No problem Kareena 💯🙏😂

[Andres77]

sounds like "he would if he could"

[kareenakapur]

What do you mean

[Andres77]

Maybe he likes you but isn't in a position where he can do something about it

[kareenakapur]

Thats what i think. He kept saying he is dealing with a lot right now.

[Andres77]

i think it would help us all if WE could see the selfie so we could give u better informed feedback... ;-)

[kareenakapur]

Omg lol nice try dont worry all my friends said fire on it and people commented hottie on it.

[kareenakapur]

@Andres77

[Andres77]

it was worth a shot ;-)

[trick1492]

It means he liked it. The only real way to know is to ask.

[kareenakapur]

lol how do i ask. he blcoked me on text 3 times when I asked if he never liked me. I'm unblocked now but he didn't respond to my messages lol.

[BoopBoopBeep]

If you're getting blocked you need to just walk away. Whatever it means that he liked your shot, it doesn't matter, because he blocked you so he finds you obnoxious (but occasionally likes the attention), or he's into playing control games. Neither is indicative of this going anywhere.

[kareenakapur]

@BoopBoopBeep i just asked him if he never liked me. Just wanted him to say straight up no i didn't and give me closure :(( i think he blocked me on snap bc he wanted to hide evidence. You’re right like wtf why did he block me he prob thinks im annoying. But then i messaged him on another platform and he has been texting me normally. I left him on read

[BoopBoopBeep]

Forget he even existed. You're worth more than a guy that isn't into you.

[kareenakapur]

@BoopBoopBeep you’re right just sucks he's the only friend I've made in the new city im moving to. The city has legit no people our age. Rlly hard to find people

[roy_ricky09]

Lol... Are you really 23?
Seems you are more interested in him

[kareenakapur]

why do u ask my age lol. i am younger than says by a little. you got It by the dot. i am more interested. he seduced me then pulled back : (

[roy_ricky09]

Hahahaha... Don't fall for it.. That's all.. Rest is your choice

[kareenakapur]

How do i not? and dont fall for what?

[roy_ricky09]

Don't fall for "hearting"

[kareenakapur]

Lol yeah im hot aF its his loss high key.

[roy_ricky09]

Wait what!!! That attitude will get you in trouble for sure. Ghamand Acha ni hota

[kareenakapur]

Wait what to kya

[kareenakapur]

I don't know what ghamand is lol

[roy_ricky09]

Good for you

[kareenakapur]

Lol what

[FilmGuy93]

He just finds you attractive

[kareenakapur]

im glad at least lol. ill take that as a win

[spartan55]

Pretty sure you are delusional too.

[kareenakapur]

I am I know that lol thats y I need to ask these q's so I get sense knocked into me but why heart her sexy snap when you KNOW she likes you and he led you on (sexted you) and apologized for it.

[spartan55]

He has a girlfriend. The end. That should be reason enough to stay away. Put stupid hearts on a picture means NOTHING.

[kareenakapur]

but he has no pics of her on social media and sexted me sang to me love songs in his boxers lol. sent me sexy shirtless pics before. he tried to friendzone me bc he has too many feelings for "someone else" and not fair to me. but I told him no friendzone would hurt too much. and then he keeps reaching out trying to be my friend. and here I am trying to seduce him and get me tf out of the friendzone ugh. i wanted heart to mean he's down to fuck damn

[spartan55]

You are gross, he is piece of shit cheater and you are ready to be his side piece..

[kareenakapur]

yess sir.

[kareenakapur]

i have lost it actually though

[kareenakapur]

wouldve never been ok being a side piece

[kareenakapur]

oh background. we both live in the middle of no where. his girl is 8 hrs away.

[spartan55]

Why does that matter?

[kareenakapur]

bc we have no options lol. im forced to move there for work. we have never met just online on the phone he wants to meet. but I told him I dont want to meet him the way he wants (friends) but he keeps insisting we will meet.

[spartan55]

You've never even met him? 😂😂😂😂 Wow, you must be seriously desperate.

[kareenakapur]

lol i am desperate. we ft'd every night at some point : (

[kareenakapur]

why does he still want to be my friend and meet me I just dont get it :(

[spartan55]

To keep his options open.

[kareenakapur]

Damn im open though. I want him so bad he was so sweet and good to me while it lasted :(

[kareenakapur]

Do i meet him?

[spartan55]

Ask his girlfriend if you should.

[kareenakapur]

Lol he didn't tell me he has a girlfriend. Just he has feelings for someone else. I did some digging and this girl posted pics of them together drinking alone and he commented on her pics like where are my picture creds etc. She didn't like any of his pics so was hard to find her.

[spartan55]

Bottom line is he is unavailable.

[kareenakapur]

True :( just dont get the block unblock block unblock and now heart. Like choose one side just block me and say i dont like u annoying ass girl and then id be able to move on

[spartan55]

Why can't you just move on anyway?

[kareenakapur]

I dont know. I really fell for him. The romantic songs. His body is hot aF. His sexting. He was so funny and sweet and so so cute.

[kareenakapur]

Just always happens to me. Guys always treat me like shit. Last guy asked for nudes and i said didn't feel comfy and he blocked me lol. Guy before that my ex of 4 years his mom said no and he never fought for me. Was scared of his parents. And they also said i wasn't cute enough so i glowed tf up. And made sure im out of his league. Guy before that said i would never find love and be happy except him and told me he’d kill me if i didn't send him nudes so i did for a year. Im just fucked up.

[spartan55]

Wow, that is sad to hear. You can PM me if you need help with anything else.

[kareenakapur]

lol so u think i should not meet this man

[kareenakapur]

and his heart means nothing :(

[spartan55]

I wouldn't recommend it.

[kareenakapur]

lol i didn't reply to him on snap left him on open for over a day he sent something again double snaped me lol its prob something friendly :(. but ill take the happiness hold on to it and daydream he sent something that would make me happy lol. ur right I'm delusional.

[Danny_dan92]

Balls got heavy

[kareenakapur]

what

[Danny_dan92]

That’s self explanatory

[mommymommymommy]

Nope

[kareenakapur]

Dang it

[In_Trance]

means nothing

[kareenakapur]

yeah prob doesn't. but why would he even do that if he says Im sorry for leading you on he should not show any signs at all in my opinion. to me that's leading me on again.