If a guy sends a pic of his legs by the pool is it flirty or just friendly?

[Anonymous]

This guy has been sending me mixed signals and now he sent me a pic like this… flirty or friendly?

Flirty

Friendly

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1 y

FYI not his real legs! It’s a stock photo!

[Summeroflove]

I can only make a assumption since I don’t know him therefore don’t know his intentions behind sending it. At the end of the day if you’re attracted chances are he likes you. But don’t assume you’re the only woman in his orbit someone else can catch someone’s attention.

If you’re not attracted to him then leave it be or you can ask his intentions and he says he’s interested kindly turn him down as to not waste either or your time. But I assume you are.

Rejection is scary. But people waste sometimes years on someone who doesn’t even like them that way in the end. Better to know now then a lot later.

[Asker]

@summeroflove Thank you!! That makes sense!! I don’t know if you remember my other question where we were talking about the guy online who sort of friend zoned me… it was from that same guy. I don’t know if that changes anything!

[Summeroflove]

If it’s him then you should drop him. He’s keeping you interested enough to feed his ego and keep you entertained so he has someone to fall back on.

[Summeroflove]

Being brutally honest and I don’t think this about you. But narcissists and other dark personalities feel like if you’re dumb enough to fall for their tactics and too weak to stand up to them. You deserve it…. These people do not have a nice way of thinking

[Asker]

@summeroflove it’s definitely starting to feel personal… like he’s trying to hurt me on purpose. If I wanted someone to be in the friend zone I’d never send a photo like that… especially after freshly telling that person that we were friends.. feels like here I am, look at me, you can’t have me… kind of a weird feeling.

[Summeroflove]

That’s what these people do. They like feeding off people

[Summeroflove]

Well. And if you confronted him he may gaslight and act like there was nothing intended behind it.

I think you just need to break it off.

[Asker]

@summeroflove Exactlyy… total mind games! My message keeps getting shorter!

Hey, so it was really nice of you to reach out here when I left (xxxx), but after some thought, I’m not sure if staying friends is what’s best for me.
I think we’re both harboring some complicated feelings and I have a hard time believing that this continues to be genuine.
Take care of yourself ♥️

[Summeroflove]

I think you’re being mature to end things on as best terms as possible. It’s not worth it you deserve someone who is as interested in you as you are in them

[TonyMetal___86]

Maybe he wants to show you his tattoos so you say that he's cool!

[Asker]

@tonymetal___86Not his legs though he does have a couple little ones can’t really see them in the photo… so would that be flirty then?

[TonyMetal___86]

I don't know, there must be something behind it, i mean sending you a photo like this ain't without a purpose, maybe he's trying to see your reaction so he pass to the next level 😏

[Asker]

@tonymetal___86 we’ve been chatting for a long time as more than friends… but then he put me in the friend zone while also calling me hot… but then he sent me this.. I’m really confuseddd lol

[TonyMetal___86]

He's playing you...
Do you want to be his friend or more? It's up to you to choose if you will let him continue such behavior with you or put an end to it...

[Asker]

@tonymetal___86 I want more but I’m kind of pissed at his confusing behavior… why would a guy do this?

[TonyMetal___86]

I don't know, maybe he's bored and just wants to have fun...

[Asker]

I want him but I hate this… also everything is so borderline that it could be turned around on me like whatttt I wasn’t flirting! lol 😭

[TonyMetal___86]

I know how you're feeling, talk to him and tell him what you want and try to see what he really wants, if it's something that goes along with you, so be it and if not than you will take a decision...

[Asker]

Yeah it all comes down to talking it out. Trying to give him a little space now because I feel like I’ve overwhelmed him in the past… but not worth letting it drag on forever…

[TonyMetal___86]

Well said👍🏻

[Anonymous]

I’m not sure how a man sending pics of his legs could be seen as flirting from a man’s POV. But I’m older so I probably think different. To me if a girl sent a pics of her legs I’d think that was flirting, especially if it was from her waist down in a bikini in a swimsuit. I get some women are turned on by men’s legs, but no where near what men think of women’s legs. It could just be a friendly thing. Maybe trying to make you jealous in a playful way, especially if you were at work and he was off for the day. Men typically don’t like social media, so a lot of us don’t post pics of ourselves online, especially our faces. But something like this I could see a man posting because it doesn’t show his face. I have yet to figure out how this would be considered flirting.

[bowenw]

I would say flirty, but a lot depends on the relationship.

[Adogdog]

Flirty for sure.

[QuietRunner]

that is flirty