What's the difference between the girl you want to hook up with and the girl you want to date/marry?

[Anonymous]

[DaveJord]

The girl I want to hook up with is usually the woman that is seriously offer the guy nothing else but sex. What I mean by that is that, regardless of if she knows it or not, she is seriously making herself undatable. This could be for a variety of reasons honestly. But in the end, she is not relationship material and she's not interested in making any changes... at that point all she has to offer me is sex.

If I met a woman let's say, and I tell her I love the Mountains, I love being in the trees and forest. And her answer is that she completely hates the mountains, trees and forest and then wants to know if I could take her shopping at the beach. At that point I make think, sure I like the beach and I will take her shopping if we are going to hook up. In this situation this woman literally has nothing more to offer me then sex.

Now a woman I want to date and marry, will invest in me as person. She will put work into a relationship and want to grow as a person with me. She is the person that may prefer the beach but can enjoy herself in the mountains as much as I can enjoy myself at the beach. Because I can go to the beach and have fun, without shopping, and she can come to mountains and enjoy being with me as much as I enjoy here company and there's doesn't have to be any sex involved.

[Finchie40]

I only hook up with girls that want to date and marry , I can’t just bang a girl for the hell of it , my intentions is to have her coming back for more and more , sadly it doesn’t always go that way but that’s my intentions , I think it’s dirty to have multiple partners , I feel it’s a high risk of catching STD’s so I try to stick with just one girl but these days it seems harder to find , but I still try , My experiences with girls’ has made me the way I am today , I feel most girls today are selfish people , they all say they want love and marriage but only on their conditions , things are always great in the beginning but it usually turns to shit once her selfishness shines through and she starts prioritizing everyone else but me , which pushes me to look elsewhere and be open to meeting someone better then her , I am no longer a sitting duck for a girl anymore , if she can’t give me what I am giving her back to her then back to the streets she goes, I will not tolerate sexual frustration in a relationship anymore , I been there and done it to the point it’s not worth it anymore , life is too short to be with someone that only cares about themselves, if intimacy and affection becomes an issue then she is no longer my partner she is just a friend is how I look at it or a roommate , I don’t need anymore friends and I don’t want to share a bed with just a friend , Pack your shit and get out cuz I want a girl that wants to be under the sheets with me

[FilmGuy93]

Personality, mostly. The girl I would want to date/marry is one that I genuinely enjoy being around. A girl I want to hook up with is just physically appealing.

[oddwaffle]

You can hook up with anyone DTF. It's really simple unless she is staggeringly ugly.

For someone to marry then it's really depends. Most of the time it's not a good idea. 99% of all divorces started by women with a college degree. That means, most women with a brain will not settle down after a while. They will almost always look for better pasture as soon as they don't feel they like their station. Combined with the fact that 70% of all divorces are caused by financial stress then you know how this going.

So for a stable marriage, you either need a woman with a "stay at home" mind and mostly a slacker at work but will do the house work and is satisfied with her life. You also need the guy to have a stable and half decent income.

[Anonymous]

Oh this a good question
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The girl you want to sleep with
Vs
the girl you want to go to sleep with and wake up with

Well first, the girl u want to hook up with can come in many forms but to give a clear idea of a type we would smash but never date
Is usually Social media & starving for clout
Physically good looking and not a mystery,
Cake face Make up and provocative clothing with an attitude that emphasizes her lack of need for a man.




Wifey would haveA social media presence that is basically nonexistent or used only to connect with close people not collect llkes and subs, who has a beauty that naturally can look cute, pretty, sexy and fine
Without the need to become hot , who is a Geek in public yet Freak in private.
She doesn’t look for approval of other
And Can get along with your guy friends
Smart, humble, hardwork, ethusiastic and interested or supportive of your passions

[ohsheeT]

The girl you want to hook up with is pretty kinky hot sexy loves to laugh can take a joke understands what you're saying when you say it doesn't matter what you're doing she would get right in there and get her hands hands dirty too she believes in you no matter what


The girl you wamt to marry just like the girl you want to hook up with. And is. Just like her until you get married and then turn in to the complete opposite of the girl you want to hook up with

[Anonymous]

Her dignity and self respect.
A hook up is a female who has no dignity and isn’t worth anything but her holes.
She is the type who posts half naked or naked photos online. The type who dance on tiktok in her underwear or bikini. The type with an OnlyHoes account.
The type who dress to expose themselves in public, for cheap sexual attention.
They drink and party, have high body counts, are generally loud, trashy, mouthy, aggressive, believe in “hot girl summer” or being a “bad bitch”.

A girl you marry is one with dignity, one who carries herself with value. She doesn’t act like a “bro”. She isn’t loud, aggressive, slutty, etc.
She dresses with class and doesn’t need to expose herself for cheap sexual attention.
She doesn’t have a big body count.
She has actual value and see’s her body as a gift for her partner, not everyone.

[Shamalien]

To see a long term future with a girl I need a mental, physical, and emotional connection. She also has to have good long term prospects. If she doesn’t exercise at all that’s a problem. She also has to want kids and be willing to raise them herself, without the aid of public school. I will be able to provide for us with my one income. And she must be unvaxxed and interested in truth

[richardcory]

Someone I want to marry has to have similar life goals as well as someone I enjoy spending time with. A hookup just needs to be someone I enjoy spending time with but life goals don't matter

[Anonymous]

The quality of the woman, and the maturity of the man.

A man who is interested in finding a life partner is going to look for a woman who will be a loyal wife and a good mother. Men know instinctively that women with a promiscuous past are less likely to make good mother's and loyal wives.

If a guy is immature and not looking for a serious partner, then the most important things is sex, so that opens the door to all those lower quality, promiscuous women.

[Mallic00]

The girl I wanna hook up with is easy on the eyes and has an amicable personality. The girl I want to marry is like the hook up girl, but with the added perk of being able to trust her with my life.

[EricSummer]

When I was single I regularly met women I'd like to date, but never any I would just want to hook up with and nothing more. The distinction does not exist for me.

[Summeroflove]

I don’t want to hook up with anyone what I’m personally looking for is a bit personal and I won’t get into it. But I’m not unreasonable either

[inhua]

body count and whether she offers anything more than just sex appeal

[WanderingLoveWizard]

The girl I marry has to be alive and concious.
Hook ups... not necessarily

[HawkPerception]

So... you're into necrophilia? 😂

[WanderingLoveWizard]

That and date rape

[WanderingLoveWizard]

I'm kiiiiiding, I'm kidding

[HawkPerception]

I know... you're good lol

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Lol.

[EpicSnail]

Hook-up candidate has a good body, a cheeky vibe

Date/marry is beautiful and a person you just love

[007kingifrit]

i'll hook up with any of them mostly. but i would marry a girl who is in shape, wants kids, doesn't work too much, isn't a feminist, isn't on social media too much.

[Anonymous]

The girl you want to marry = the girl you want to hook up with + has a good personality and isn’t crazy.

thats the defining filter.

[JDAC092299]

You wanna sleep with one but the other you wanna do everything with

[Venymal]

For a girl I would date/marry, personality becomes more important. For a hookup, it’s more about how she looks and how sexy she is.

[LiamJHayden]

The girl I want to date is someone who interests me in ways beyond looks.

I don't hook up.

[Twalli]

A hookup would just be a hot girl. A life partner would be someone I enjoy being with, even if it's not sexual

[Anonymous]

Anyone with a brain knows you hook up first and marry later.

[SandyKandy]

Divorce lawyers know the answer to this. lol

[Shiningtempest]

I agree. I would talk to divorce lawyers to find out what's the difference.

[Anonymous]

If you can't figure that out then life is going to be hard for you girl. It ain't that difficult.

[Asker]

I asked a question
I didn't shag your dad
Calm down with the passive aggressiveness

[Opinion Owner]

😆😆😆

[clampfan101]

I don’t want to hook up with anyone. Just marriage. All the way or nothing.

[Shy_Steve]

The Girl I want to Date or Marry talks less.

[gerald5466]

there is no difference because the one girl I want to hook up with I'm going to marry her

[jujus]

The thing is I don’t see a difference they’re all in 1 for me

[AMS700CX4u2]

Actually they should be identical.

[Mac-One]

She was the same girl for me.

[Anonymous]

wrong question...

[Asker]

... how so?

[RingOfFire]

Depth

[cootjuhh]

20 years

[Slim57]

Her personality