Why will crush and old classmate not accept my friend request on instagram? He hasn't added anythhing to his pictures since I sent the request. Why?

[Hotstuff98]

[OlderAndWiser]

If you want to rebuild a potential relationship with this guy, trying to do it through social media is a huge mistake. Why don’t you actually talk to him?

[Hotstuff98]

We live in different cities now.

[OlderAndWiser]

You can want something and express that feeling without appearing to be desperate. Unfortunately, young people use that don’t-wanna-appear-desperate explanation as an excuse because they are afraid of revealing their feelings and being hurt.

[MementoMori777]

Are you sure he even went on insta, I wouldn't go on it if it wasn't for someone I talk to on there every once in a while so maybe he isn't even on

[Hotstuff98]

Before I added him I saw the number of his photos increase.

[MementoMori777]

Maybe he missed the notification? After a while unadd and add again lol

[Hotstuff98]

I don't want to appear desperate

[MementoMori777]

That makes sense, then maybe it's better to wait

[Hotstuff98]

Thanks 😊

[summiter]

Does he have a girlfriend or is in a relationship? If he won't accept your request you may have to move on if he is not interested.

[spartan55]

Because he doesn't want to is my best guess.

[Hotstuff98]

But he had a crush on me in uni

[spartan55]

According to whom?

[Hotstuff98]

To my teacher , me and friends

[spartan55]

He told your teacher he had a crush on you? Why would he do that? That's really weird. Maybe he's not interested anymore, maybe he has a girlfriend.