Why does he still contact me?

[Anonymous]

So I used to talk to this guy a lot long phone convos/FT ….. I never met up with him despite him begging me, due to us getting in arguments and him having to many red flags. Make a long story short he was super into. Anyways still months later he still contacts me? He recently went on a spam and like all of my old and recent photos on social media within 20 seconds? He still asks if he can see me? He recently told me that he misses me. He never misses a social media post or story, and interacts with all of mine. He’s a good looking guy so I’m confused on why he still contacts me if I haven’t met up with him ever?

[ManOnFire]

You stopped talking to him because you had arguments and saw things in him you didn't like, and he keeps reaching out to you, so why didn't you block him? Why do you bother reading his messages? Why haven't you closed the door entirely? Because it seems like you must still want him there in some form or at some distance.

Is it maybe an ego thing? Do you get pleasure out of him still wanting you and groveling? Especially when you say he's good-looking, does it make you feel powerful or sexy that you can keep a good looking guy coming back?

He's still contacting you, but you're also still letting him. You don't want to talk to him but you have no problem with him glorifying your social media posts. So I would say there's something in it for you to let him keep bothering you.

[spartan55]

Why haven't you blocked him. Seems like this would be a simple solution to your problem.

[ManOnFire]

Because there is a benefit in it for her.

[spartan55]

@ManOnFire
I read your opinion and agree.

[In_Trance]

because you keep answering