Guys, when you have a crush on a girl, what do you do to get her attention?

[Anonymous]

[Part2603]

You got it backwards. Don't let yourself develop crushes in the first place. Instead you should always, consistently and immediately "investigate" any girl that catches your momentary curiosity.

In that sense you should be acting on your "crushes" within a minute or less. If a girl says something funny, compliment her on her joke and crack another. If a girl is wearing a pretty dress, tell her she looks nice and offer to take her photo for the yearbook. If a girl asks an interesting question during lecture, go up to her after class and follow up on her topic of inquiry.

The school is just as much yours as it is anyone else's. You should never feel cowed or reluctant to engage anyone in conversation at your school.

[Anonymous]

A few examples of things I have done...

• Walk in front of her
• Dress better around her
• Sit near her
• Let her friends catch me staring
• Stare at her a lot

[Asker]

When u stare at her and she saw you staring still ignored then why you guys keep staring?

[Opinion Owner]

I'm hopelessly attracted to this girl.

[Asker]

But she is ignoring you still you stares at her? That is creepy

[Opinion Owner]

This women was gang stalking me.

[runnerboy]

I'm still kinda new to the sex and dating thing since I just graduated high school. I always tried to make eye contact and to make small talk. What would you suggest... I'm still learning?

[Anonymous]

I would flirt with her.

[Asker]

Other than that?

[Opinion Owner]

Take the time to get to know her.

[Jamie05rhs]

I don't do anything.